So here’s the thing…
You’ve finally swayed your lover to have anal sex with you.
Now while you’re pretty fired up to get the action going in the bedroom, you don’t really know much about pleasuring her in the backdoor, which can possibly lead to disaster sooner or later as you go along.
There’s no need to worry just yet, though. Here are a few anal sex pointers that you should keep in mind to boost your chances of giving her an awesome experience…
Take her sexual arousal off the charts.
Unlike the stuff you see in porn movies, anal sex isn’t about making a beeline to a woman’s behind and getting your groove on.
See, doing this in real life will just make your partner feel really awkward and uncomfortable. It is crucial that you take her sexual arousal up a notch before you even think about making the move to penetrate her.
(Here’s a quick tip that you can use to get her sexual arousal in gear.)
You need a liberal amount of lube.
Lubrication is an essential part of anal sex. This is because the anus doesn’t have the ability to produce natural lubrication unlike the vagina.
And sexually penetrating her without lube is simply a very big mistake. Believe me your anal sex session will just end up badly and way sooner than you’d like to when you do this.
Make it a point to load up on a lot of lube if you’re looking to have anal sex with your partner soon.
Can’t decide how much lube to get your hands on? Get the amount you think is enough and double it.
Keep in mind to slap on a lot of lube before you sexually penetrate her anus and reapply as soon as you feel that things aren’t as smooth like when you started.
Remember: slow is the way to go.
No matter how excited you are to sexually penetrate your lover in the anus when the action’s already hot in the bedroom, always keep in mind that slow and easy does when it comes to anal sex.
Besides making sure that your partner won’t be feeling awkward when you kick things off, she’s also going to feel more relaxed and comfortable when you’re doing it.
Ask her to call the shots.
Keep in mind that your lover also has a say in terms of anal sex.
Make sure you ask her to guide you as you go along to ensure that she’s having a good experience from start to finish.