When it comes to giving your lover an experience in bed that she won’t forget anytime soon, I’m pretty sure that going down on her is one of the things that are in your checklist.
Apart from allowing you to have complete access to your partner’s clitoris, which is no doubt the most sensitive erogenous zone in her body, you can also do a lot of stimulation techniques with your mouth, tongue and lips while at it.
But the thing is a lot of men seem to have the wrong idea about oral sex.
They basically think that the whole thing is pretty much done like in porn movies, which usually involves the actor making a beeline south of a woman’s border and stimulating it like there’s no tomorrow.
Besides making her feel more awkward than satisfied when you’re at it, chances are she won’t have an orgasm no matter how hard you try in the process.
However, I’ve learned a few mistakes that you should keep clear of when you give her oral sex during my extensive research into the female sexuality.
Make sure you read on to find out what these mistakes are and really take her pleasure levels off the charts on your next oral sex session…
Don’t rush it.
Now while this may sound surprising right now, going down on your partner is just like sexually penetrating your partner during lovemaking.
It won’t be as pleasurable as it should if she’s not that fired up for action in the bedroom.
Make it a point to really prep her up before you work your magic on her and you’re sure to get on the right track.
Don’t go straight to the clitoris.
Sure the clitoris is definitely the most sensitive erogenous zone in your lover’s body, but it doesn’t mean that zeroing in on it as soon as you get the chance is your best option when it comes to oral sex.
She will just feel awkward and uncomfortable if you stimulate her clitoris as soon as you get the chance.
Keep in mind not to get too frisky with her clitoris prematurely and you’ll notice some positive results.
Don’t assume you know everything.
Now while men are almost always the one taking the lead during lovemaking, it is also smart to let your partner call the shots from time to time, particularly when you go down on her.
Besides asking her where you should stimulate her first, it’s also smart to let her guide you how you should go about it as well.