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Having a tricky time breaking the ice during a date?

Having a tricky time breaking the ice during a date?

I’m really getting rather frustrated with the things that so-called “dating gurus” are saying when it comes to breaking the ice when you go out with a woman.

Besides remembering to give her the notion that you’re the alpha male by acting a tad snobbish, they’re also suggesting that opening your conversation with difficult subjects makes her feel that you’re smart.

Following this strategy not only makes you look like a jerk, but a blowhard as well, which already gives you a preview of how your date will turn out.

But the thing is I’ve picked up a few useful pointers that will boost your chances of successfully breaking the ice when you’re out on a date with a woman during my extensive research into the female psychology.

Read on to know what these are…

Switch off your mobile phone.

Sure having a mobile phone is a necessity these days, not turning it off when you’re trying to break the ice during a date will only get you distracted.

And not only that, it will also make your date think that you’re not really interested in her.

Make it a point to switch off your phone so you can really focus on your date. Just sticking with silent mode or vibrate won’t cut it.

Maintain appropriate eye contact.

Looking the woman you’re going on a date with in the eye is a must to make her feel that you’re being honest with her.

Avoiding her gaze will only give her the notion that you’re shady and having a date with you is a mistake, which can easily make her feel stressed instead of being comfortable in your company.

Got a problem having and keeping eye contact? Try focusing on the tip of her nose instead of her eyes at first to help you get on track.

Ask trivial questions.

I know this sounds surprising right now, but starting things off with really simple stuff like asking her what the name of her first pet is or perhaps her favorite TV show boosts your chances of engaging her in a meaningful conversation.

Besides being easy to answer, asking your date trivial questions also makes her feel that you’re not pretentious. A win-win situation, right?

Listen to her intently.

Always keep in mind that listening intently to a woman when you’re trying to get a meaningful exchange of ideas going is as important as knowing how to break the ice with her.

Doing this doesn’t just give her the notion that you’re really interested with what she’s saying, but you’re enjoying her company as well.

These fingering tips will help boost her pleasure levels during sex.

These fingering tips will help boost her pleasure levels during sex.

I think that fingering your lover during a sex session is one of the best strategies you can go for.

Apart from giving her a lot of pleasurable sensations when you do it properly, using your fingers to stimulate her vagina when the action’s hot in the bedroom also helps make you last for as long as you can in the process.

However, unlike what a lot of men mistakenly think, fingering isn’t just about sticking your fingers in her vagina when you get the chance. There are actually some priorities you need to remember to make the experience awesome for her.

So if you’re looking to really wow her the next time you “take matters into your own hands,” here are some important things that you should keep in mind…

Get her really fired up in bed.

Getting your lover really sexually aroused is a priority when it comes to fingering because it can easily make or break your chances of giving her pleasure while you’re at it.

See, you need to get your partner suitably wet before you can pleasure her down there with your fingers or else she’s just going to feel uncomfortable and awkward.

There’s even a chance that she’ll lose her sexual mood when you skip the whole thing, too.

(Here’s a useful trick that you can use to get her fired up for lovemaking.)

Trimmed fingernails are a must.

Although the vagina is naturally elastic and able to withstand a lot of pumping, it is still vulnerable to being pricked by unkempt fingernails during fingering.

Keep in mind to give your fingernails the trimming that they deserve before even thinking about getting busy south of her border.

Don’t go straight to the clitoris.

Sure the clitoris is no doubt the most sensitive erogenous zone in a woman’s body, stimulating it before it’s really ready to produce pleasurable sensations will just lead to disaster.

Take note that you’ve got to give the clitoris a bit of time to get ready or else she’ll just think that your efforts are uncomfortable and annoying.

And that’s even if you’re already bringing your A-game into play while at it.

Let her in on the action.

Asking your lover to guide you when you’re already getting busy with your fingers down there helps you really hit the spots she wants to be stimulated.

Apart from asking her if the pressure and speed you’re applying are alright, she can also give you directions to the areas that give her maximum pleasure.

These masturbation tips will make the experience even more awesome.

These masturbation tips will make the experience even more awesome.

If you’ve been following HowToLastLongInBed.com for a while now, you probably already know that masturbation is more than just experiencing the pleasurable sensations of lovemaking by your lonesome.

Apart from helping you maintain your ability to get a strong and lasting erection going, making it a habit to “badger the witness” regularly also helps stave off the accumulation of unwanted toxins that can set off prostate issues in the long run if not taken care of properly.

But the thing is, a lot of men tend to think of masturbation as something that should be done as quickly as possible, which basically makes them miss out on a lot of pleasurable sensations in the process.

So if you’re looking to make masturbation even more satisfying for you, here are some useful pointers that I’ve picked during my extensive research into the male sexuality…

Grab some lube.

Now while masturbating dry is already pleasurable, you’ll be surprised with how much it will become more delightful for you when you get your hands on some lube during the action.

Besides making things smoother when you’re already at it, you can also keep clear from getting blisters in the process.

Just keep in mind that you should reapply as soon as you feel that the sensations you’re feeling aren’t as slick as before.

Kick things off gently.

If you’re anything like most men, you’d like to get fast and furious as soon as you can during a masturbation session to feel its pleasurable sensations immediately.

However, you’re simply preventing your body from really producing the satisfying feelings that masturbation is capable of when you do this.

See, your body needs some time to really fire up its erogenous zones. If you go full speed ahead before it’s completely ready, the pleasurable sensations that you’re going to experience will be diminished.

You’ll be surprised when you go slow and easy the next time you do it. You can take things up a notch after a while when your body is already ideally fired up, though.

Vary your techniques.

Make it a point to vary the strokes you do while at it and the amount of pressure you apply when you masturbate.

Apart from giving you different levels of sensations, this also gets you more sexually excited as you go along because simply sticking with one technique is just going to get rather boring sooner or later.

Here are some key reasons why your erections are weakening.

Here are some key reasons why your erections are weakening.

Chances are you hold your ability to achieve strong and lasting erections in high regard when things get pretty steamy between you and your lover in bed.

Besides being a sign that you’ve still got the chops to give your partner a sex session that will knock her socks off, it also means that you’re in for loads and loads of pleasurable sensations while the action’s taking place.

But the thing is you’re simply noticing that your erections are not as intense and powerful like they used to these days.

Sure this problem may be a bit worrying, but this isn’t the time to get your hands on pills, creams, gels and other artificial stuff that a lot of so-called “sex gurus” are recommending that can bring more harm than good when you use them.

I’ve learned a few simple reasons during my extensive research into the male sexuality that may just help you get back on track to getting rock hard erections like you used to.

Let me explain what I mean…

Your diet needs improvement.

What you load up on in a daily basis has a big effect on your ability to rise up to the occasion.

See, your body needs essential vitamins and minerals to keep functioning ideally. If you’re not getting the right amount of these each day, you’re sure to notice a – pardon the pun – “shrinkage” down there

Make it a point to go for healthy options as much as you can to bring back the power of your erections in full swing again.

You hardly sweat it out.

Exercise basically keeps the heart in the pink, which maintains its ability to work like it should when you get sexually aroused.

At its simplest, the heart is in charge of pumping a more than usual amount of circulation to the pelvic region, where they get absorbed by the erectile tissues in the penis to get them firmed up.

As soon as these erectile tissues absorb all the blood they need, you’re ready to rock and roll in the bedroom.

Making it a point to have at least 15 to 30 minutes of vigorous exercise like jogging or biking each day will do the trick.

You don’t stay hydrated.

Blood channels like the blood vessels, arteries and veins need to stay as supple and flexible as they can to direct circulation to the erectile tissues in the penis properly.

They tend to lose their suppleness when you allow yourself to get dehydrated.

Keep in mind to drink at least 6 to 8 glasses of water or fresh fruit juice each day (and no, sodas and other sweetened carbonated beverages won’t count) and you’re good to go.