It’s no secret that oral sex is one of the best things that you can give your lover when things are getting extra steamy in the bedroom.
You’re not just going to have the opportunity to pleasure your partner’s clitoris, which is no doubt her most sensitive erogenous zone, but going down on her during lovemaking also helps stave off premature ejaculation.
Definitely a win-win situation, don’t you think?
However, most men seem to have the wrong notions about oral sex that prevent them from really giving their lovers the pleasurable sensations they’re looking forward to experience during the action.
And if you’re aiming to knock her socks off the next time you explore south of her border, make sure you keep clear from these no-no’s…
You don’t make her completely sexually aroused.
Let’s start off with perhaps the biggest oral sex mistake ever.
Unlike what you see in porn flicks, oral sex is not about making a beeline to her clitoris and vulva when the opportunity strikes. You need to really fire her up first before you get busy.
See, her erogenous zones down there need to be activated first before they can churn out pleasurable sensations. And that can only be done when you get her really horny.
You get fast and furious as soon as you get the chance.
Licking her like there’s no tomorrow may be the most logical solution to make her come faster, but it’s actually an oral sex no-no.
You need to begin slow and easy to get her body in gear. You can only take it up a notch when she’s good and ready. Don’t worry. Chances are she’ll be the one telling you, too.
You don’t vary your techniques.
Make it a point to mix things up when you work your magic on her down there.
Besides using a different technique every few minutes, you also need to focus on another erogenous zone while you’re at it to always keep her guessing where you’ll go next.
And believe me, her sexual excitement levels are going to be off the charts when you do this.
You neglect to make the ambiance awesome for her.
I know this sounds surprising to be here, but keeping in mind to clean and organize your bedroom regularly is crucial when you’re looking to give her an oral sex session she won’t forget anytime soon.
Women are very particular with organization and cleanliness, and your lover is just going to feel uncomfortable and stressed if she thinks that your bedroom needs jazzing up.