I’m betting that you’ve got oral sex in your checklist when you and your lover are heating things up in the bedroom.
It basically gives you the chance to work your magic on your partner’s clitoris, vulva and vagina, which are no doubt some of her most sensitive erogenous zones.
Now while you may already have brought together an oral sex game plan that’s filled with the techniques that you think she loves when you explore south of her border, I came across key mistakes that can ruin the experience for her during my extensive research into the female sexuality.
Make sure you read on to learn what these mistakes are and really knock your lover’s socks off the next time you give her some oral attention…
You go straight to the clitoris.
Sure getting busy on your partner’s clitoris is a top priority when it comes to oral sex, but simply making a beeline for it as soon as you get the chance won’t have the effect that you’re looking to achieve.
See, the clitoris needs a bit of time to prep up before it can start producing pleasurable sensations. She’ll just feel awkward and uncomfortable when you pleasure it before it’s really ready for action.
You don’t vary your techniques.
Unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly believe, going down on a woman isn’t just about pleasuring her with your mouth, tongue and lips until she reaches the point of no return. It’s either you lick or suck and you’re on your way.
But the thing is there are a lot of things that you can do in terms of oral sex. Make it a point to mix things up while you’re at it and you’ll just be surprised with the results.
You don’t stimulate her other erogenous zones.
What’s really interesting is oral sex isn’t just about the erogenous zones from her waist down. If you think that this is so, you and your lover are missing out on a lot of pleasurable sensations during the action.
Keep in mind to give your partner’s other erogenous zones like the breasts and lower abdomen the sexual TLC they deserve when you go down on her.
You only pleasure her in one position.
Going down on your lover doesn’t just happen when she spreads her legs so you can get at her erogenous zones down there. You can also stimulate her orally when she’s bending over or perhaps in a semi-kneeling position.
Make it a point to be imaginative and creative when you go down under and you’re sure to give her a mind-blowing orgasm before you know it.