So after a very long time of convincing, you’ve finally gotten your lover’s nod to try anal sex in the bedroom…
Now while you’ve been waiting for a long time for this to happen, you don’t have even the slightest clue how to go about it. What now?
There’s no need to worry just yet, though.
I’ve gathered some very useful pointers during my extensive research into the female sexuality that will surely help you give her an experience that she’ll like when you two give anal action a go.
Let me walk you through them…
Anal Sex Pointer #1: Get her as sexually aroused as you can.
Unlike the stuff that you see in porn flicks, having anal sex isn’t just about bending your partner over as soon as you get the chance and start sexually penetrating her from behind.
Akin to vaginal sex, you’ll need to get her as horny as you can before you kick things off.
There are actually two good reasons for this: first, she’ll be more relaxed to get the action going and second, she’ll do away with her inhibitions, which will make her feel more relaxed and adventurous in the bedroom.
Anal Sex Pointer #2: Have as much lube as possible.
The anus doesn’t have the ability to produce its natural lubrication unlike the vagina. And it needs a bit of help in this department or else your anal sex experience will just end up in disaster.
Besides only making your lover feel very uncomfortable, she will just cross off anal sex in her checklist of bedroom activities before you know it.
Keep in mind to stock up on enough lube prior to your backdoor performance. Can’t figure out how much you need to get your hands on? Grab how much you think is enough and double that amount.
Anal Sex Pointer #3: Be very slow and gentle.
Sure the temptation to plow her behind like there’s no tomorrow can be very tough to shrug off, keeping in mind to take things slow and easy is the way to go when it comes to anal sex. Ask her first when you want to take things up a notch so you won’t ruin her mood.
Anal Sex Pointer #4: Let her guide you.
Anal sex is a different experience for every woman. So if you’re looking to make your partner enjoy the whole thing, remember that it’s smart to let her call the shots to avoid mistakes.