Crucial Pointers To Remember Before Fingering Her

Looking to finger her? Read these important tips first.

Looking to finger her? Read these important tips first.

Fingering your lover when things are already getting extra steamy in the bedroom is no doubt one of the most versatile sex moves that you can ever do.

Besides giving your partner different sensations compared to when you sexually penetrate her using your penis, working your magic on her using your fingers also helps stave off premature ejaculation while you’re at it.

Now while you may already have a general idea of how to give your lover a fingering session by now, I’m going to walk you through some crucial pointers that you need to keep in mind to make the experience really awesome for her.

So if you’re looking to really knock her socks off the next time you finger your partner, remember to have the following pointers up your sleeve…

Keep a close eye on your grooming.

I know that you think this is just about the hygienic side of things, but it’s actually so much more. See, not giving your hands the grooming TLC they truly deserve can make fingering a horrible experience for your lover.

Apart from making her feel rather uncomfortable when you don’t trim your fingernails like you should, you’re also making her vulnerable to a number of health issues if you just go ahead in use your fingers for sexual penetration without giving them a meticulous scrub first.

Slow and gentle does it.

Some men mistakenly think that going as intensely as they can when fingering starts is the way to go when it comes to making a woman feel good.

Now while you need to stimulate your lover’s vagina to produce pleasurable sensations, doing it like there’s no tomorrow as soon as you get the chance will only lead to disaster.

You need to keep in mind that starting slow and easy is a must to ease your partner into it and keep her sexual arousal up to par. Besides observing her body language, you can also ask her if she’d like it faster and more intense as you go along to find out if you already need to up the ante.

Stimulate her other erogenous zones.

Remember to pleasure her other erogenous zones like the breasts, inner thighs, nape and lower abdomen to intensify the sensations that your partner will experience when you finger her.

Having a fingering session doesn’t mean that you just have to focus on sexually penetrating her vagina with your fingers. You can also, let’s say, “multitask” while you’re at it.

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