If you’re anything like most guys, getting a BJ when you and your lover are already heating things up in bed is definitely an experience you don’t want to miss out on.
But the thing is you’re simply noticing that your partner isn’t as excited to explore your nether regions as much as you’d like her to.
There’s no need to worry just yet, though. Sure this is quite disappointing, but it’s an issue that you can fix.
I’ll walk you through some of the things that can prevent her from going down on you and how to use them to your advantage.
Read on to learn what these are to take your oral sex experience up a notch…
Your hygiene down there.
If you’ve been following my posts for a while now, you probably already know that how you look and smell can significantly affect your chances of attracting a woman.
And this also includes how you’re going to convince her to give you a blowjob.
Make it a point to really keep an eye on your hygiene, especially down there, so she won’t hesitate to start the action. Remember to trim your pubic hair while we’re on the subject, too.
How you give her oral sex.
Your performance when you go down on your lover plays a key role when it comes to encouraging her to give you more blowjobs.
If she thinks that your oral sex sessions aren’t that nice, she won’t try to give it all that she’s got when it’s her turn to pleasure you down there with her mouth, tongue and lips.
Make it a point to really knock her socks off when you go down on her.
(Here’s also an oral sex mistake that you should always keep clear of.)
Her mindset on giving BJ’s.
If your partner thinks that giving blowjobs is “yucky” and “degrading,” it’s not uncommon that she won’t be that excited to go down on you.
Explain to her that oral sex is something that is enjoyable and exciting. Make her also more adventurous in bed by really getting her as sexually aroused as you can, which helps ease her inhibitions.
How you ask for it.
Now while respectfully asking your lover for a blowjob is a must, resorting to full-blown begging will just give her the notion that you’re getting rather wimpy in the bedroom.
Ask gently and respectfully, but stay firm. You’ll be surprised with the results.