4 Fingering Mistakes That You Should Always Avoid

Fingering no-no's to keep clear of!

Fingering no-no’s to keep clear of!

Getting busy with your fingers is perhaps one of the most versatile sex moves that you can go for when you and your lover are already heating things up in the bedroom.

Apart from giving your partner loads and loads of pleasurable sensations when done right, it can also help stave off premature ejaculation if you do it in between thrusts.

Sure you may already have a pretty clear idea by now in terms of how to give your lover a fingering session that she’ll like, but I’ve learned a few mistakes during my extensive research into the female sexuality that will ruin the experience for her.

And that’s even if you’re already bringing your fingering A-game into play, too. So the next time you’re looking to knock her socks off in bed using your fingers, keep in mind to stay clear from these no-no’s…

Not giving your fingernails a trim.

Making it a point to give your fingernails a trim before getting in action is a must because of two very important reasons:

First, it keeps your fingers clean and hygienic, which prevents any unexpected health issues in and around her genitals from taking place soon.

Second, untrimmed nails can also be very uncomfortable when you’re already sexually penetrating her with your fingers and can sap away her sexual arousal.

Stimulating the clitoris immediately.

Although the clitoris is the most sensitive erogenous zone in a woman’s body, it still needs to get completely ready before it can be stimulated during fingering.

Pleasuring your partner’s clitoris before it’s really ready will just feel awkward and uncomfortable for her no matter what technique you’ll do while at it.

Penetrating her before she’s ideally wet.

The same goes for inserting your fingers inside her vagina before it’s totally ready for stimulation. If it’s not ready, there would be no sexual pleasure for her.

Besides being rather uncomfortable for your lover, doing so will just make her feel anxious and impatient. You probably already have a mental picture of how the whole thing will go when this happens.

Not asking her to guide you.

Now while you may have already fingered your lover lots of times, chances are you still don’t know all the things that gets her off during the same.

Keep in mind to let her in on the action when you’re fingering her. Ask her what she wants. You’ll simply be surprised with the results.

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