I’m betting that having your lover in the backdoor is no doubt one of the items in your sexual bucket list.
Besides the promise of new and exciting sensations that you’ll experience while the action’s hot, what guy would turn down the opportunity to have an anal sex session with his partner in the first place?
However, there is a big chance that your lover is still hesitant to give anal sex a go until now. Although this may be frustrating for you, it doesn’t mean that you should abandon all hope of making her say yes to your advances.
I’ve learned during my extensive research into the female psychology some techniques that may help boost your chances of convincing her to get her freak on in the backdoor if you do them properly.
And I’m going to share them with you in a bit. Let’s start the ball rolling, shall we?
Talk to her about it outside the bedroom.
A lot of guys seem to overlook the fact that anal sex is something that’s rather taboo for women. So it’s not unusual for your lover to reject you when you ask her for a bout of anal action when you’re already at it in bed.
Make it a point to discuss anal sex with her outside the bedroom, say when you’re having a post-meal chat or perhaps when having a drink with her.
Apart from not making her feel pressured in any way, your partner can also share her feelings about it, which gives you an idea why she’s hesitant to give it a go.
Include her anus during foreplay.
A woman won’t discover the hidden pleasures of her anus being stimulated if you steer clear from it when you’re working your magic on her during foreplay. Keep in mind to give it the TLC that it deserves when you’re already at it in the bedroom.
Besides gently touching her anus as if you were pleasuring her other erogenous zones, it’s also a smart move to stimulate the areas in and around it.
Be very, very patient.
I’d like to be honest with you. Convincing your lover to give anal sex a try isn’t a walk in the park. Depending on your partner’s adventurousness in bed, it can take a long time.
But the thing is you can try this technique to make her more sexually adventurous that you can use.