I’m really disappointed at what a lot of so-called “dating gurus” are saying about first dates these days.
Apart from emphasizing that acing one is all about doing a dating trick that’s aimed at giving a woman the notion that she’s going out with an “alpha male,” they’re also suggesting that convincing her to go out with you again can be pulled off by following some “surefire techniques.”
But the thing is I learned during my extensive research into the female psychology that there isn’t a specific dating trick or technique that will ensure your first date is going to be a complete success.
On the other hand, I also discovered some key factors you should take note of to make the woman you’re going out with feel not just safe and comfortable around you, but also excited to go on date number two with you soon.
Here are those key factors…
Let her in on the first date planning and organization.
Unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly believe, planning and organizing a first date aren’t tasks that you should take on alone.
Sure this sounds surprising right now, but you’re actually better off if you let her in on the action.
See, besides giving her the notion that you really care about her, you also won’t have a tough time going for the right venue, the food and drinks she likes as well as the activities she’ll want to engage in on your first date.
Pull out all the stops with your grooming.
Now while this may be something that you don’t need to be reminded about, there are still guys who neglect to give their grooming the TLC it deserves before showing up on a first date.
Besides keeping in mind to get rid of excess facial hair, picking your clothes carefully, having a meticulous shower and slapping on some deodorant, going for appropriate and clean shoes while at it is also a must.
Prioritize talking about trivial stuff.
One of the goals that you should realize during a first date is making a woman feel cozy and relaxed around you.
And one of the ways that you can do this is by establishing an emotional connection with your date, which is primarily done by exchanging meaningful ideas with her.
I learned during my extensive research into the female psychology that women tend to be more eager to get in on a conversation if they can easily relate to the subject being discussed.
Try to kick things off with the most trivial topic that you can think of and you’ll be surprised with the results.