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So you're looking to boost your chances of making her cum...

So you’re looking to boost your chances of making her cum…

I’m pretty sure that making your lover reach the Big O during a sex session is your top priority.

Apart from blowing your partner’s mind with a barrage of pleasurable sensations hitting her all at once, you’ll also make her more excited to have another go in the bedroom soon.

How’s that for two for two?

But the thing is I’m really disappointed at what a lot of so-called “sex gurus” are saying when it comes to taking a woman to the point of no return and back.

Besides recommending wearing special scents that supposedly boost a woman’s ability to achieve orgasm, they also suggest using slapping on artificial products like gels and creams on your penis to get the job done.

Well, I’ve learned some really useful and simple tips that can help you make your lover come during my extensive research into the female psychology and I’ll share them with you when you follow along…

Your overall grooming is key.

How you look and smell can easily make the difference between a woman having an orgasm during lovemaking and a woman who can’t seem to really get properly sexually aroused during the same.

Always make it a point to keep a close eye on your overall grooming so you won’t have trouble getting your partner in the zone for action between the sheets and keep on building it until she’s good and ready for an orgasm.

(Here are some surefire grooming tips that will help you get started.)

Your bedroom’s cleanliness is vital.

Women are rather nitpickers when cleanliness and organization are concerned. Besides giving them the notion that you’re sloppy, it will also promote a surge of stress hormones in her body.

And when stress hormones are building up, they tend to negate the functions of their positive counterparts that are responsible for giving a woman a mind-blowing orgasm. She might not even get sexually aroused while at it, too.

Keep in mind to give your bedroom a regular cleaning and organizing and you’ll be on the right track.

Your bedroom game plan is important.

Sure your partner may love the way you stimulate her erogenous zones and take her pleasure levels off the charts when you sexually penetrate her, but doing the same things again and again will definitely take the fun and excitement out of lovemaking sooner or later.

Make it a point to update your sexual checklist regularly and you’ll be surprised with the results when things get hot in bed.

Keep these tips in mind when you go down on her.

Keep these tips in mind when you go down on her.

When it comes to giving your lover a mind-blowing orgasm or two in the bedroom, pleasuring her orally the right way is definitely one of the best strategies that you can go for.

Besides having a no-holds-barred access to her clitoris and vagina, which are two of the most sensitive erogenous zones in a woman’s body, there are virtually countless ways to pull the whole thing off.

You can use your lips, tongue and mouth every which way you need to really knock her socks off while you’re working your magic down there.

However, there are some very important things you need to take note of to really give your partner an oral sex session that she won’t forget anytime soon. Make sure you read on to learn more…

Keep a close eye on your facial hair.

Sure this sounds rather surprising, but your facial hair can easily make or break your chances of giving her amazing oral sex.

This is because wayward facial hairs tend to excessively rev up the pleasurable sensations that her vagina and clitoris are capable of producing.

Now while these sensations start out pleasurable, they become more and more pronounced every minute, making them feel awkward and uncomfortable for her. Make it a point to keep your facial hair properly trimmed and you’ll be on the right track.

Don’t go straight to the jackpot.

If you’re anything like most men, chances are you think that making a beeline to her genitals should be the top item in your sexual checklist as soon as the action starts.

But the thing is the vagina and clitoris need a bit of time to really get in the zone and begin producing pleasurable sensations. If they’re not completely ready to rock and roll, the sensations that they’ll produce are going to be anything but pleasurable.

Keep in mind to really get her sexually aroused as much as you can to get her erogenous zones in gear.

Go slow and easy and build it up from there.

Never ever pull the whole “lick it like there’s no tomorrow” routine that you see in porn movies when you’re going down on her or else risk your whole oral sex session to be over in a, well, lick.

Oral sex is about getting her going and building up her sexual excitement as you go along. It’s not about pleasuring her like a machine. Unless she asks you to take it up a notch, stay as slow and easy as you can.

Remember these mistakes the next time you masturbate.

Remember these mistakes the next time you masturbate.

I’m pretty sure that masturbation is a mainstay in your regular schedule.

And unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly believe, masturbating isn’t just about experiencing sexual pleasure without your wife, girlfriend or lover. It actually has some good things to offer as well.

Besides being quite pleasurable, which is no doubt the top reason why men masturbate, frequently doing the “five finger shuffle” also has some rather awesome benefits like relieving stress and staving off prostate health issues.

How’s that for getting your rocks off and staying in great shape?

But the thing is there are some key mistakes that you should keep in mind before you start your masturbation session to make the experience as pleasurable as possible.

Make sure you read on to learn more…

Masturbation Mistake #1: Not picking the right spot.

Location matters a lot when you masturbate. Always remember to go for places that aren’t just safe and comfortable, but where you can keep your privacy as well.

Apart from avoiding possible injuries while you’re at it, you also won’t be prone to embarrassing situations in the process.

Just imagine how disastrous the whole thing will be when somebody inadvertently sees you “whacking the bird” or walks in on you while you’re “holding your sausage hostage.”

I highly suggest doing the deed in your bedroom if you’re hankering for a solo quickie.

Masturbation Mistake #2: Not having lube.

Now while you can still “play tug of war with the Cyclops” dry, doing so with lube not only intensifies the pleasure levels that you experience, but also prevent any damage to your penis caused by the friction of stroking it.

And make sure you apply the lube generously before even thinking about starting the action with the first stroke.

Masturbation Mistake #3: Starting too fast.

Sure your ultimate goal when you masturbate is to achieve orgasm and cum, going fast and furious as soon as you get the chance is something that you should keep clear of when you’re “slapping the salami.”

See, besides not giving your body to really prep up for sexual arousal, which makes you miss out on a lot of pleasurable sensations, you will also have a problem familiarizing when your sexual peak kicks in.

Your sexual peak is basically the time when the levels of positive hormones in your body are already off the charts, which set off your orgasmic and ejaculatory responses.

Knowing when your sexual peak gets triggered easily helps you prevent premature ejaculation.

Rekindle her sexual excitement by keeping these in mind...

Rekindle her sexual excitement by keeping these in mind…

If you’re anything like most guys, chances are you’re always game for a lovemaking session with your partner between the sheets.

Although you may already have a checklist of techniques that will get your lover going in bed, you’re simply noticing that she’s not as receptive to them these days.

And that’s even if you’re already bringing your sexual A-game into play while at it.

Now while this may be a bit frustrating on your part, this doesn’t mean that you’re losing your sexual touch. Chances are you’re just making the following mistakes that are keeping her from really getting in the zone in the bedroom…

You’re neglecting your grooming.

At its simplest, getting a woman excited for sex primarily involves promoting a surge of positive hormones in her body.

Besides activating your partner’s erogenous zones to produce pleasurable sensations when stimulated, these positive hormones also trigger her orgasmic responses when they reach a certain level.

But the thing is your overall grooming can easily make or break your chances of making her body churn out these positive hormones. If you look and smell good, she won’t a problem getting ready for action in bed.

On the other hand, if your grooming isn’t up to par, it’s either she’ll take longer to get sexually aroused or not get in the mood for lovemaking at all.

Your bedroom is a mess.

Women are very particular with cleanliness and organization, especially in the bedroom.

In fact, they’re so particular with it that they will find it really tricky to get in the mood for lovemaking if they feel that the bedroom where the sexual action is supposed to happen is in need of a bit of sorting out and a vacuuming or two.

Keep in mind to always keep your bedroom in apple pie order and you’ll be surprised how easy it will be for you to get her ready for action between the sheets.

You’re always doing the same sexual moves.

Here’s one really simple question for you…

Let’s say you’ve got a favorite burger that you’d like to munch on from time to time. What happens if you make it a point to eat that burger each time you have a meal? That will surely take away the fun of eating it, right?

Same goes for your sexual techniques and bedroom moves. Keep in mind to “serve up” a new move or two between the sheets as well as mix things up while you’re at it and she’ll be ready for lovemaking before you know it.