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These mistakes will ruin oral sex for her.

These mistakes will ruin oral sex for her.

Going down on your lover is definitely one of the ways that you can really knock her socks off when things get hot in the bedroom.

Besides giving her an overload of pleasurable sensations when you give her clitoris and vulva the oral attention that they deserve, you’re also boosting her chances of having a mind-blowing orgasm or two while at it.

Sure you may already have an idea how to pull the whole thing off, but some guys tend to overlook a few mistakes that can prevent her from really enjoying the experience even if you’re already bringing your A-game into play.

Make sure you follow along to find out what these mistakes are to really take her pleasure levels off the charts the next time you’re exploring south of her border…

You go fast and furious immediately.

A lot of men mistakenly think that oral sex is all about zeroing in on a woman’s sexy bits and stimulating them with their lips, tongue and mouth the moment the action starts.

Although you need to stimulate your lover’s erogenous zones like the vulva, vagina and clitoris to get them producing pleasurable sensations, immediately making a beeline for them as soon as you get the chance will only lead to disaster.

Instead of producing pleasurable sensations, she will just feel awkward and uncomfortable, which can easily disrupt her overall oral sex experience.

Besides giving your partner the notion that you’re teasing her, you’ll also boost her sexual arousal when you go down on her as slowly as you can.

Don’t go straight to the clitoris.

Now while the clitoris is the most sensitive erogenous zone in a woman’s body, stimulating it before it’s really ready will prevent it from churning out the loads and loads of pleasurable sensations that it’s able to produce.

Always keep in mind to get her completely sexually aroused first before even thinking about pleasuring the clitoris when you explore south of her border.

(Here’s an awesome clitoral stimulation move you can use to blow her mind when you are already at it, too.)

You think you know everything you need to know.

Sure you may have gone down on your partner lots of times already and have an idea of the things that get her going during oral sex, but it’s still very smart to ask her how you should run the show.

Come to think of it. Who knows best what will get your lover off than her, right?

You're sure to masturbate more often when you read this.

You’re sure to masturbate more often when you read this.

Masturbation is perhaps one of the activities that’s a mainstay in your regular schedule.

Unlike what a lot of men wrongly believe, though, having a date with Palmela Handerson isn’t just about experiencing the pleasure of sex by your lonesome.

Make sure you read on to learn some rather interesting facts about “battling the purple-headed yogurt slinger” or “fastening the chin strap on the helmet of love…”

Interesting Masturbation Fact #1: It is a proven stress-reliever.

Let’s start things off with masturbation’s beneficial effect when you think that your stress levels are already off the charts.

See, your body goes through a surge of negative hormones when you’re feeling stressed. Besides making you feel impatient, anxious and generally edgy, these hormones also tend to disrupt your sex drive, ability to get rock hard on demand and lasting long in bed as well.

This simply means that apart from making you feel bad, your sex life is going to be significantly affected in the process.

You’re basically promoting an increase of positive hormones like dopamine and oxytocin in your body when you masturbate, which negate the effects of their negative counterparts.

Interesting Masturbation Fact #2: It helps protect your prostate.

Toxins and other unwanted visitors tend to build up around the prostate over time, which can trigger health issues like prostate cancer in the long run if not taken care of properly.

However, the body is naturally wired to get rid of these toxins by ejecting them along with seminal fluid. And masturbating in a regular basis helps ensure that they’re eliminated before they get the chance to deal damage.

Besides getting your rocks off, keep in mind that you’re also protecting your prostate whenever you engage in “hand to gland combat.”

Interesting Masturbation Fact #3: It helps you become a better lover.

Did you know that masturbating regularly helps you know when your sexual peak is?

The sexual peak is basically the time when the level of positive hormones in your body reaches their ideal number to activate your orgasmic and ejaculatory responses.

The more you “play tug of war with the Cyclops” or “tap the wookie on the head,” the more familiar you’ll become when your sexual peak is going to happen and the easier it will be for you to prevent coming way sooner than you’d like to when things get hot in bed.

Come to think of it. Practicing being familiar with your sexual peak is definitely one activity you’d be more than willing to have a go, too.



So you're planning a first date...

So you’re planning a first date…

Careful planning plays a very important role in making a first date successful.

Besides helping you prepare the best way you can for the big event to boost your chances of acing the whole thing, you’re also reducing the risks of going through some awkward moments during the same.

Unlike what a lot of so-called “dating gurus” are saying, planning for a first date isn’t just about looking and smelling good.

Now while keeping a close eye on your grooming is something that you shouldn’t overlook in your first date checklist, there are also other very important things you need to keep in mind to really pull it off…

Let her in on the action.

Most guys mistakenly believe that planning a first date is their sole responsibility. This is actually one big misconception.

Planning a first date is supposed to be an activity between you and the woman that you’re going out on a first date.

Apart from making her feel that you really value her inputs, which means extra brownie points for you, my friend, you’re also having a preview of the stuff she likes that you can take note of in your checklist.

You’re sure to gather a lot of meaningful information like the food she likes as well as the activities she enjoys doing.

Don’t choose a very luxurious place.

Sure you may think that going for the most luxurious venue for your first date is the best strategy, it can easily lead to disaster during the big day (or night, which is which).

Although picking a nice place that your date will find comfortable and cozy is an essential, overdoing it will just make her feel that she’s going to a job interview or a similar event.

This will simply promote a surge of stress hormones in her body that will make her feel nervous, anxious and rather impatient, which already gives you an idea of how your first date will go.

List down trivial things to talk about.

Sure opening up a conversation with something tricky and complicated may seem like a good idea, but it will just make her think that you’re trying too hard to impress her.

Make it a point to break the ice with trivial stuff like asking your date what her favorite cartoon character is or perhaps the ice cream flavor she loves.

You’ll be surprised how the conversation will flow meaningfully as you go along.

Stave off premature ejaculation by checking this out.

Stave off premature ejaculation by checking this out.

If you’re anything like most men, I’m pretty sure that lasting for as long as you can during lovemaking is no doubt the top item in your bedroom checklist.

Besides ensuring that you’ll knock her socks off with an overload of pleasurable sensations while the action’s hot, you’re also in for a lot of enjoyment as you go along.

But the problem is you’re simply noticing that you’re coming way sooner than you’d like to when things get hot between the sheets these days and it’s already getting you anxious.

Unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly believe, though, premature ejaculation isn’t about how old you are or perhaps some other reason given by so-called “sex gurus” who simply segue to artificial products like pills, creams and gels.

Make sure you read on to find out some possible reasons why you’re coming too soon these days…

Your negative stress levels are through the roof.

Now while negative stress is a normal part of life, experiencing too much of it at once is going to promote a surge of stress hormones in the body.

Apart from disrupting the function of their positive counterparts, which can significantly affect your ability to get rock hard on demand and get your libido going, having an excessive amount of these negative hormones also stimulates your body to trigger its orgasmic and ejaculatory responses earlier than it should.

Make it a point to properly take care of your negative stress levels to prevent them from wreaking havoc sooner or later.

You’re too excited.

Sure it’s inevitable to get a bit excited when things get hot in the bedroom, but getting too excited already leads to problems lasting long during lovemaking.

See, your body experiences a surge in positive hormones when you’re sexually aroused. They are needed to prep you up for sex like picking up your heart and breathing rates as well as directing blood to the erectile tissues in the penis.

Having too much of them in your body already triggers your sexual peak sooner than it should and you’ll just find yourself popping off earlier than schedule in the bedroom.

Remember to hold your horses when you and your partner are already getting frisky in bed and you’re good to go.

You don’t masturbate in a regular basis.

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