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Looking to boost your confidence? Check this out!

Looking to boost your confidence? Check this out!

Your level of self-confidence plays a very important role in your life. Besides influencing how you think and act daily, it also affects every decision you make.

And if you’re anything like most men, chances are you tend to experience problems keeping your confidence up to par from time to time, especially during tough situations.

Unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly believe, though, improving your confidence isn’t as tough as you think.

Here are some key tips you should keep in mind if you’re looking to take your confidence up a notch…

Accept that it’s going to take time.

Let me kick things off by saying that improving your confidence isn’t something that can be achieved overnight. Besides requiring a lot of commitment on your end, it also takes time to pull off.

There is no way that you can cut corners or rush the whole thing. If you think that you don’t have the time or determination yet, then it’s best to put it off until you’re really ready.

Doing it half-cocked won’t cut it. Ever.

Focus on your weaknesses.

At its simplest, it’s your weaknesses that are holding you back from really improving your confidence.

Make it a point to list down all your attributes that you think need improvement and how you can make them better.

Sure this sounds rather tedious, but this helps you know yourself in a deeper level and allow you to creatively fix the issues that need to be taken care of.

List down your strengths, too.

If you’ve got weaknesses, then you’ve certainly got strengths as well.

Just like what we previously discussed, make sure you note down the things that you’re good at. Some men tend to overlook the fact that they’re good at things, too.

It could be a talent or perhaps some unique attribute that you have and think of ways how you can improve them as well.

Interestingly, the mere thought of listing down your strengths helps promote the release of positive hormones that make you feel good.

Keep it going.

When you start your journey to improve your confidence, make it a point to follow it through each day.

It isn’t something that you should stop altogether because you find the experience challenging.

Always remember that although improving your confidence takes a bit of time, you’re sure to reap the rewards once you pull it off.

These are the reasons why she's finding it tricky to get sexually aroused.

These are the reasons why she’s finding it tricky to get sexually aroused.

If you’re anything like most men, chances are you don’t find it tricky to get ready for a lovemaking session.

It only takes a mere peek at your lover’s sexy bits or perhaps a whiff of her perfume to turn you on. But the thing is it’s entirely a whole new different ballgame for your partner.

She needs to be eased into it the right way or else she’ll just end up not getting ideally sexually aroused or not even close to it at all.

And now you’re simply noticing that your lover is taking longer to get ready between the sheets these days. This doesn’t mean that you’ve already lost your touch when it comes to getting her going for lovemaking, though.

Chances are you’re just making the following mistakes that keep her sexual arousal levels from really taking off…

You’re not keeping an eye on your hygiene.

Your smell and appearance are two of the most important factors that can make or break your chances of getting a woman sexually aroused.

If they’re not kept up to par as they should, there’s a big possibility that your lover won’t be bumping headboards with you anytime soon because she’s just going to have a surge of stress hormones in her body even when you’re already bringing your best moves into play.

And if you’ve been following my posts for a while now, you probably already know that stress hormones only make women feel impatient and awkward.

Make it a point to always keep your hygiene in check to get on the right track.

You’re not keeping your bedroom in apple pie order.

Women are very particular with cleanliness and organization.

And if your bedroom isn’t kept as clean and organized as can be, your partner will have a problem getting ready for action in bed because she’ll just be preoccupied with the mess.

Keep in mind to give your bedroom the TLC it deserves and you’re sure to boost your chances of getting your lover going for a sex session.

You’re doing the same moves again and again.

Sure you may already have an idea of the moves that your partner likes when you’re already getting frisky in the bedroom, but doing it again and again will significantly reduce the pleasure and excitement levels that they can set off.

Make it a point to update your sexual checklist from time to time to prevent this from happening.

Boost her sexual pleasure with these simple tips.

Boost her sexual pleasure with these simple tips.

Giving your lover an overload of pleasurable sensations is a must if you’re looking to make her reach orgasm or two as you go along.

But the thing is unlike what a lot of so-called “sex gurus” are saying, there are no cutting corners in doing just that.

You’d have to bring your A-game into play when you’re going down on her or perhaps getting busy giving her nipples, inner thighs and back of the neck the stimulation they deserve to get the job done.

Now while you may already have an idea of the things that your partner likes when the two of you are already getting in action between the sheets, here are a few pointers that will help intensify the pleasurable sensations she experiences even more while you’re getting busy…

Get her as sexually aroused as you can.

Sure this sounds rather simplistic, but your lover’s sexual arousal levels can easily make or break your chances of really knocking her socks off during your lovemaking session.

Before you start pulling out all the stops when the both of you are getting frisky in the bedroom, keep in mind to get her as sexually aroused as you can so her body will have a surge of positive hormones.

These hormones don’t just make her skin, especially in and around the erogenous ones, super sensitive temporarily, but also activate her body’s orgasmic responses when their levels get off the charts.

Don’t go straight to the jackpot.

Now while making a beeline to the clitoris or nipples may be the best strategy to go for when it comes to kicking off a sex session, this is actually a big mistake.

See, even the most sensitive erogenous zones need to prep up properly first so they can produce the pleasurable sensations that they’re capable of.

Make it a point to stimulate their outer edges first before you get to ground zero. Besides giving her a teasing sensation that she’ll surely love, you’re also ensuring that the erogenous zone you’re pleasuring is getting on its way to its full potential.

Show your admiration.

As I’ve previously pointed out, the brain is one erogenous zone that you shouldn’t neglect during lovemaking.

Make it a point to verbally show your admiration while pleasuring your lover in bed. This promotes the release of more positive hormones, which will definitely take your sex session up a notch.

Reasons why your erections are fizzling out.

Here are 3 reasons why your erections are fizzling out.

Achieving a strong and lasting erection when things get extra steamy in bed is no doubt the most important thing in your sexual to-do list.

You’re not just in for an overload of pleasurable sensations when you sexually penetrate her vagina or anus, but also have the ability to blow her mind with an orgasm or two while at it.

But here’s the problem: you’re just noticing that it takes a bit longer for you to rise up to the occasion these days.

Unlike what a lot of so-called “sex gurus” are saying, though, this doesn’t mean that you’ve already reached the time of your life when you’re prone to the softie syndrome and need artificial products like the blue pill to get rock hard on demand.

I’ll walk you through some possible reasons why it’s taking you longer to stand up to attention between the sheets nowadays when you follow along…

Your stress levels are off the charts.

Now while stress is inevitable in life, having too much of it at once will already have a negative effect on your ability to achieve quality erections.

See, your body needs an ideal amount of positive hormones to activate sexual arousal and get an erection going.

When your stress levels are through the roof, you’ll have a surplus amount of negative hormones that will only disrupt the function of their positive counterparts, leading to a delay in rising up to the occasion or worse, not getting hard at all.

Make it a point to properly control your stress levels so your ability to get powerful erections won’t be compromised. And trying to pull it off with a few alcoholic drinks or a quick smoke will not help, too.

You’re not eating right.

Your regular diet plays a key role in getting a strong and lasting erection.

You’re basically reinforcing your body’s efficiency and reaction time when you load up on the right stuff like fruits and vegetables. However, you’re also disrupting the same when you eat too much salty and oily stuff.

I’m not saying that you should completely swear off your favorite treats, but keeping in mind to eat them moderately is very important.

You’re not exercising.

Sweating it out in a regular basis not only helps keep your overall circulation up to par, but also keeps your organs like the heart in the pink.

The heart is basically the one pumping a more than usual amount of blood to the erectile tissues in the penis during sexual arousal to firm them up. And you already get the idea what will happen if it’s not working like it should.

As a bonus, you will also look and feel better as well as boost your sexual stamina in the process.