Giving your lover an explosive orgasm (or two) when you’re getting busy in the bedroom is no doubt the top priority in your sexual checklist.
Unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly believe, though, pulling the whole thing off isn’t just about making a beeline to her clitoris or nipples as soon as the action starts between the sheets.
Besides feeling rather awkward and uncomfortable for your partner, especially when these erogenous zones are stimulated before they are really ready, making it a habit to only go for the clitoris and nipples during sex or foreplay gives the brain the notion that pleasuring them is a routine.
This leads to a significant decrease in the sexual pleasure that your lover will experience during the same before you know it.
However, I’ve learned a few useful pointers during my extensive research into the female sexuality that will help you knock her socks off in the bedroom with an explosive orgasm. Make sure you read on to find out more…
Kissing is a must.
If you’re anything like most men, chances are you’d like to get straight to the action when you and your partner are already at it between the sheets.
But the thing is you’re making her miss out on an orgasm if you neglect to give her an awesome kissing session during the action.
See, smooching basically helps jump start and maintain the amount of positive hormones in her body that play key roles in taking her sexual arousal levels off the charts and activating her orgasmic responses.
Use a pillow.
When you sexually penetrate her using the missionary position, keep in mind to place a pillow under her butt before you start the action.
This helps make your pubic bone graze her clitoris each time you thrust, which intensifies the sensations she experiences while doing so. You’re basically giving her an overload of pleasurable feelings in the process.
You can also experiment with different pillows to find the one that suits you and your partner best.
Switch off your cell phone.
A woman’s orgasm is the result of accumulated sensations that she experiences during a sex session. If these sensations aren’t able to build up properly, then chances are she won’t reach the Big O as you go along.
And one thing that can easily disrupt the buildup of these sensations is a beeping cell phone or some other gadget that you may have around.