I’ve learned during my extensive research into the female sexuality that some guys don’t seem to have a clear idea what to do when they’re going down on their partners.
Now while they may have the right intention – and that is to blow a woman’s mind with a barrage of pleasurable sensations from down under – not having a clue of the things that they should avoid during the action easily breaks their chances of pulling it off.
There is even a big possibility that you’re guilty of doing the same mistakes as well.
So if you’re looking to really give your lover an oral sex session that she won’t forget anytime soon, make sure you avoid the following…
Patience is a virtue.
Sure you may have seen in porn movies how the male actors almost always zero in on the vagina and clitoris immediately when they get the chance (and make them feel rather ecstatic while at it, too), doing this in real life will just lead to disaster.
See, the clitoris needs a bit of time to get ready for stimulation. Akin to the erectile tissues in the penis that need to firm up first before they can produce pleasurable sensations, this erogenous zone won’t be able to churn out the same if stimulated way sooner than it should.
Make sure that your partner is totally sexually aroused first before you get busy south of her border.
Easy does it.
Another oral sex mistake that you should always keep clear of is applying too much pressure and going full speed ahead on her intimate areas as soon as you get the opportunity to do so.
Now while applying varying techniques and pressure on her sexy bits is sure to yield different and exciting sensations, simply going fast and furious on them straight away will only lead to less the favorable results.
Keep in mind to go slow and easy to really get her going.
Don’t be afraid to ask for directions.
Although you may now have a general idea of what areas to focus on as well as the techniques that you can do when you’re going down on your partner, don’t hesitate to ask for suggestions from her while you’re at it.
Don’t act as if you already know what there is all to know about oral sex because chances are you don’t.
Remember that she knows what really takes her pleasurable sensations through the roof, so better let her guide you to really get the job done.