Having a fancy for anal sex isn’t uncommon among guys.
Apart from the promise of experiencing new sensations while the action’s going on, sexually penetrating a woman in the backdoor also takes your excitement levels off the charts.
And now that you’ve finally convinced your lover to give anal sex a go, you’re looking to make the whole thing as enjoyable for her as it will be for you.
But the thing is unlike what a lot of men mistakenly believe, pulling it off isn’t copying porn star moves. You’re just going to end up making the experience horrible for her before you know it.
Make sure you read on to learn key mistakes that you should keep clear of to give your partner an anal sex session that will be fun and exciting for her, too.
You don’t really fire her up for action in bed.
Anal sex is quite similar to vaginal sex. You need to get a woman as fired up for lovemaking as you can to get her ready for backdoor action.
Unless your lover is really sexually aroused, she’s not going to get in the mood for anal anytime soon.
(Here’s a neat foreplay trick you can use to get her going while we’re on the subject.)
You don’t have a lot of lube ready.
Unlike the vagina that can produce its natural lubrication, the anus needs a bit of help in that department.
Make it a priority to get your hands on a lot of lube to ensure that things are going to be smooth and easy when you sexually penetrate her from behind.
And while we’re on the subject, remember to get twice the amount that you think is ideal.
You go full speed ahead as soon as the action starts.
Sure the temptation to go fast and furious as soon as you get the chance to sexually penetrate her anus, but the best way to do it is slow and easy.
Instead of experiencing pleasurable sensations, she’s just going to feel awkward and uncomfortable in the process.
You don’t ask her to guide you.
Who knows best what will make her feel awesome during anal sex than your lover?
Don’t think that you already know what will make her feel good when you’re already at it because chances are you’re wrong.
Always keep in mind that you let her guide you through the whole thing to make sure that she’s going to really enjoy it.