A woman’s sexual arousal plays a very important role when it comes to giving her a lovemaking session that she won’t forget anytime soon.
The more fired up for sex your partner is, the more pleasurable sensations she will experience when the action’s already hot between the sheets, which means that making her reach the Big O as you go along won’t be that tricky.
But the thing is a lot of guys seem to overlook a few crucial factors that can keep a woman from really getting sexually aroused. And we will tackle them in a bit when you follow along…
You rush her to get in the mood.
Unlike guys that can get ready for action in the bedroom at the drop of a hat, women need a bit of time to get in the mood for lovemaking. And you’re only setting yourself up for disaster if you rush your partner in any way.
Make it a point to go as smooth and easy as you can when you’re trying to fire her up for sex. Sure the temptation to go fast and furious is overwhelming, but the rewards are simply worth it when you do it slowly.
You do the same moves.
Here’s the thing. No matter how much a woman likes a foreplay technique, she won’t find it pleasurable as before if you do the same thing each time you get the opportunity. Make sure you use different techniques every time to really take her sexual arousal up a notch.
You don’t keep an eye on your bedroom’s cleanliness and organization.
Women are very particular with organization and cleanliness. Your chances of getting her sexually aroused are going to be very slim because her body will only have a surge of negative hormones.
Unlike their positive counterparts that promote sexual arousal, negative hormones will set off feelings of anxiety and impatience. Just imagine how that will disrupt the possibility that she will be excited for getting frisky between the sheets.
You go straight to the clitoris and nipples.
Sure they may be the two most sensitive erogenous zones in a woman’s body, but simply making a beeline to the clit and nipples will only lead to the opposite. Keep in mind to warm her up properly first before you get right to the main event.
Key erogenous zones that will help start her up include the back of the neck, the lower abdomen and the inner thighs.