Going down on a woman is perhaps one of the best ways to knock her socks off when things get extra steamy in the bedroom.
Aside from giving you the opportunity to pleasure her intimate areas using various stimulation techniques that you can’t normally pull off using your fingers and penis, you can also easily make her reach the Big O if you play your cards right as you go along.
But here’s the situation…
Unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly think, simply giving your lover a bout of oral sex isn’t going to cut it if you’re looking to blow her mind.
So if you’re really looking to give her an oral sex session that will blow her mind as soon as the action kicks off, here are a few mistakes that you should always keep clear of…
Don’t go straight to the clitoris.
Now while I agree that the clitoris is no doubt the most sensitive erogenous zone in a woman’s body given the sheer number of nerve endings that it contains, making a beeline for it when you get the chance is just a big mistake.
See, the clitoris needs to be properly prepped up first before it can really produce the pleasurable sensations that it’s capable of. Not doing so will only make a woman feel uncomfortable – even to the point of pain – while you’re at it.
Don’t start hard with your stimulation.
Most men tend to think that the more forceful you stimulate a woman’s nether regions during oral sex, the more pleasure she will experience.
It’s actually the opposite. You’ve got to start as slow and easy as you can to really get her going in the process. And once she’s buckling and groaning with pleasure, you can already take things up a notch.
Don’t forget to ask her what she’s in the mood for.
Although there are very specific erogenous zones that should be pleasured during oral sex, making it a point to ask your partner how she’d like to give it a go is a must.
This is because a woman’s sexual preferences tend to change from time to time and you won’t be able to give her an amazing time if you just rely on your instincts.
Come to think of it. Who knows what will really pleasure her during oral sex best? It’s your lover, right?