Ah, blowjobs. I’m pretty sure that they’re definitely in your checklist when things get extra steamy between the sheets.
Besides making you experience a lot of pleasurable sensations, getting head from your lover is no doubt one of your biggest bedroom fantasies.
However, the problem is you’re still not convincing her to go down on you until now. This doesn’t mean that you won’t be getting a bout of oral sex from your partner, though.
Chances are the following reasons are keeping her from exploring south of your border during lovemaking…
You suddenly ask her for a BJ in the middle of sex.
A lot of guys mistakenly believe that asking for a blowjob from a woman simply involves pausing in the middle of lovemaking and gently nudging her head in the direction of your penis.
Now while this move may work in porn movies, it’s rather tricky to pull the whole thing off in real life. See, this just makes her feel rushed and awkward.
Make it a point to discuss it way before the action to prep her up properly.
You don’t go down on her yourself.
Oral sex is basically a two-way street.
If you don’t make it a point to knock her socks off with an amazing round of cunnilingus when the two of you get busy in bed yourself, she won’t realize that the experience is both exciting and pleasurable.
So if you’d like your partner to give you oral action, take the lead and give her an experience she won’t forget anytime soon.
You don’t keep a close eye on your hygiene.
Now here’s the thing…
If you’re looking to convince your partner to take things orally down there, you’ve got to look and smell really nice. Keep in mind to be very conscious of your hygiene (especially in your nether region) and your chances of getting a BJ are sure to become higher.
You don’t keep your bedroom clean.
Like I’ve emphasized in an earlier post, your bedroom’s cleanliness can easily make or break her sexual arousal, which plays a key role in terms of convincing her to go down on you.
You don’t fire her up properly.
A woman’s sexual arousal directly affects the things she will be eager to take part in when things get hot in bed. If she’s not that fired up for action, she won’t be that enthusiastic to give the south of your border the TLC it deserves.