When it comes to giving your lover an unforgettable sex session, it’s crucial that you get her really fired up for action in the bedroom first.
Unless your partner is completely sexually aroused, chances are she won’t enjoy lovemaking like you want her to experience it.
So now here’s the situation…
You’re simply noticing that your lover takes a longer time to really get sexually aroused these days. And it’s already getting you worried that you’re losing your touch when it comes to heating her up between the sheets.
There’s no need to get anxious yet, though. Here’s a quick list of the reasons why your partner isn’t getting sexually aroused as fast as she used to…
Your bedroom is a mess.
A woman isn’t going to be sexually aroused if she doesn’t feel comfortable and relaxed. And one of the things that will definitely prevent her from getting in the mood is a dirty and unorganized bedroom.
Simply keeping in mind to fix the bed, put dirty clothes in the hamper as well as doing a bit of organizing in a regular basis will surely help do the trick.
Your grooming needs a little improvement.
If you’re looking to get a woman fired up for lovemaking, then it’s very important to look and smell the part.
Make sure you trim excess facial hair, which can also be a bit annoying and uncomfortable for her when you’re pleasuring her intimate areas, brush and floss properly as well as apply deodorant.
Having a spritz or two of cologne is a nice way to top things off as well.
You go too fast.
Sure you may already have an idea of the erogenous zones and the techniques she likes when foreplay is concerned, but the pleasure levels that you can give her while you get busy while at it will go down if you go fast and furious as soon as you get the chance.
Keep in mind to go as slow and easy as you can and you’re sure to give her lots of pleasurable sensations.
It’s also smart to explore her body to discover new erogenous zones. Make sure you give her inner thighs, back of the neck and lower abdomen or “treasure trail.”
You don’t ask her what she wants.
Come to think of it. Who knows best what will give them the most foreplay pleasure than your lover?