Unlike what a lot of self-proclaimed “pickup artists” are saying, acing a first date isn’t something that you can achieve by simply following some pointers like acting like the alpha male and wearing loud clothes to really give a woman the idea that she should go out again with you.
But the thing is you’ll just end up giving her the wrong notion when you follow these tips.
Come to think of it. Put yourself in a woman’s shoes for a moment. How would you feel if the guy you’re on a date with arrives in a really gaudy getup and acts like the most self-obsessed man on earth?
Not good, right?
Interestingly, I’ve picked up a few key wardrobe factors during my extensive research into the female psychology that can help boost your chances of convincing your date to go out with you another time.
Go for a simple yet well-planned apparel.
A lot of men tend to overlook the fact that coming up with a nice outfit for a first date doesn’t have to be complicated in any way. You simply have to keep three important things in mind: it has to be appropriate, comfortable and match well together.
Having these three in your checklist when you’re planning your outfit will surely help you make the right choices and come up with a superb getup, which will wow your date as soon as you arrive.
Cleanliness is a big deal.
Women are very particular with cleanliness. If your date notices that your clothes and shoes are not as clean and well-maintained as they should be, she will just have a surge of stress hormones that will make her feel that you’re sloppy and irresponsible.
And it will just get worse as your date goes on. Besides feeling uneasy with you, she will also feel impatient and awkward as the minutes tick. That already gives you an idea of how your chances for a second date will turn out.
Don’t overdo it on the accessories.
Although topping off your getup with an accessory or a piece of jewelry helps wrap things up, overdoing it will simply make you look showy and desperate. Remember to only integrate two accessories in your apparel max and you’re on the right track.
Never forget your hanky.
A handkerchief is a crucial part of your apparel. You’ll never know when you will need it so make sure you have one.