Chances are anal sex is way up on the list of things that you’d like to give a go when things get hot in the bedroom.
But the thing is unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly believe, anal sex isn’t just about getting your hands on a lot of lube and sexually penetrating your lover in the backdoor.
There are some key factors that you need to keep in mind to make the whole experience as amazing and enjoyable for you and your partner.
Make sure you follow along to find out more…
Discuss anal sex with her outside the bedroom.
Most men make the mistake of asking their partners to engage in anal sex with them in the middle of lovemaking.
Apart from catching your lover off-guard, which can be quite annoying for her, it can also possibly ruin her sexual mood right then and there because she will have the notion that you’re pressuring her to do it.
Make it a point to talk about anal sex in a more casual environment where she’ll feel more relaxed.
Get your hands on a lot of lube.
Unlike the vagina that can naturally produce lubrication for sexual purposes, the anus needs a bit of help in that department.
Keep in mind to have lots of lube prepared before you even think about asking your lover to have anal sex with you or else the experience won’t be as awesome for her like you expected.
“Liberal” is the operative word here. Apply a liberal amount of lube as much as you can before and during anal sex.
Don’t force things.
Remember that the trickiest part of anal sex is inserting the tip of your penis in her anus, which is the widest part of your manhood.
Never try to insert the whole thing at once, but rather do it bit by bit.
You can also stimulate her anus like you would pleasure her other erogenous zones to get it ready for sexual penetration.
Let her run the show.
Ask your lover to guide you during anal sex.
Let her decide the pace and rhythm as well as the intensity of your thrusts.
Do the whole thing in her terms so she can easily gauge what she likes and what she doesn’t about anal sex so you can make the experience better for her as you go along.
And you’re also boosting your chances of convincing her to give it another go soon, too!