November 2015 Archives

Stave off premature ejaculation with these pointers!

Stave off premature ejaculation with these pointers!

Premature ejaculation is perhaps one of the most disastrous experiences that you can ever go through when you and your lover are already at it between the sheets.

Apart from preventing you from really giving your partner the sexual satisfaction that she wants in bed, you’re also going to miss out on a lot of pleasurable sensations yourself.

Now while using gels, pills and creams that claim to help prevent you from going off too soon during lovemaking sounds the best solution to go for right now, you’re only putting yourself at risk to a lot of health issues sooner or later.

But the thing is I’ve learned some simple yet very effective techniques that can stave off premature ejaculation during my extensive research into the male sexuality and you just have to follow along to find out what they are…

Think that you’re going to last for as long as you can.

Did you know that simply thinking that you’re going to come too soon actually conditions your body to do just that?

This is because the brain tends to pick up mental cues and considers them as something that you’d like to happen. And you’ll simply find yourself coming before you’ve even got started when this happens.

So instead of thinking that you’re going to pop sooner than you’d like to when the action’s going on in the bedroom, think about lasting long enough to really knock your lover’s socks off.

Focus on making your partner come first.

A lot of guys seem to overlook the fact that primarily focusing on their sexual pleasure during lovemaking will significantly increase their chances of coming too soon.

This basically keeps them from getting complete control of their body’s orgasmic and ejaculatory responses.

Make it a point to mostly concentrate on giving your lover a sex session that she won’t forget anytime soon when you’re already at it between the sheets.

Besides boosting your chances of giving her an orgasm or two, you’re also going to last longer in the process.

Try to hold off penile stimulation for later.

Some men tend to sexually penetrate their partners as soon as they get the chance, which creates a surge of positive hormones in their bodies almost immediately.

See, when these hormones reach a certain level, the brain translates it as a sign to activate your body’s orgasmic and ejaculatory responses. And you already know what happens next, right?

Keep in mind to stimulate your lover through other means like your fingers, lips and tongue first.

(Here’s an oral sex trick that she’ll surely love, too!)

These are just some of the reasons why you need to masturbate regularly...

These are just some of the reasons why you need to masturbate regularly…

Masturbation is no doubt an activity that you’re quite familiar with.

Chances are you’re also doing it in a regular basis, too.

Now while the first reason why you masturbate is experiencing sexual pleasure by yourself, it actually has some key benefits that can take your performance in the bedroom up a notch.

Sure this may sound surprising right now, but you’ll have a more positive view on masturbation after going through this post.

Make sure you read on to find out what these sexual benefits are…

Masturbation helps you get rock hard on demand.

Chances are you’re already familiar with the phrase “practice makes perfect.” Well, this can be also applied to your ability to achieve an erection when you are sexually aroused.

Masturbation basically helps your body “practice” getting the ideal erection for lovemaking, by simulating the process that you normally go through when you and your partner are at it between the sheets.

Besides helping ensure that you will get rock hard as soon as things get hot in bed, the erection that you’ll achieve won’t fizzle out sooner than you’d like to as well.

Masturbation boosts overall immunity.

I’ve learned during my extensive research into the male sexuality that masturbating in a regular basis helps keep the balance of stress and positive hormones as ideal as possible.

This is because you will have a surge of positive hormones each time you ejaculate, which prevents their negative counterparts to skyrocket and wreak havoc on your immune system.

If stress hormones well up more than they should repeatedly, this can lead to a weakened immune system in the long run.

And come to think of it. You’ll be having a great time while at it, too.

Masturbation helps prevent premature ejaculation.

The male body uses positive hormones like dopamine and oxytocin to prep up for lovemaking. And when their levels reach a certain range, the brain translates this to activate your orgasmic and ejaculatory responses.

This is called the “sexual peak” and not having a clue when yours kick in can lead to premature ejaculation, which is definitely one of the most frustrating experiences that you and your partner can go through in the bedroom.

See, you are basically going through the same sexual arousal process as lovemaking when you masturbate.

The more you masturbate, the more you’ll be familiar with your sexual peak.

Now just imagine how much longer you will last the next time you and your lover are at it between the sheets.

Always keep these anal sex tips in mind!

Always keep these anal sex tips in mind!

Chances are anal sex is way up on the list of things that you’d like to give a go when things get hot in the bedroom.

But the thing is unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly believe, anal sex isn’t just about getting your hands on a lot of lube and sexually penetrating your lover in the backdoor.

There are some key factors that you need to keep in mind to make the whole experience as amazing and enjoyable for you and your partner.

Make sure you follow along to find out more…

Discuss anal sex with her outside the bedroom.

Most men make the mistake of asking their partners to engage in anal sex with them in the middle of lovemaking.

Apart from catching your lover off-guard, which can be quite annoying for her, it can also possibly ruin her sexual mood right then and there because she will have the notion that you’re pressuring her to do it.

Make it a point to talk about anal sex in a more casual environment where she’ll feel more relaxed.

Get your hands on a lot of lube.

Unlike the vagina that can naturally produce lubrication for sexual purposes, the anus needs a bit of help in that department.

Keep in mind to have lots of lube prepared before you even think about asking your lover to have anal sex with you or else the experience won’t be as awesome for her like you expected.

“Liberal” is the operative word here. Apply a liberal amount of lube as much as you can before and during anal sex.

Don’t force things.

Remember that the trickiest part of anal sex is inserting the tip of your penis in her anus, which is the widest part of your manhood.

Never try to insert the whole thing at once, but rather do it bit by bit.

You can also stimulate her anus like you would pleasure her other erogenous zones to get it ready for sexual penetration.

Let her run the show.

Ask your lover to guide you during anal sex.

Let her decide the pace and rhythm as well as the intensity of your thrusts.

Do the whole thing in her terms so she can easily gauge what she likes and what she doesn’t about anal sex so you can make the experience better for her as you go along.

And you’re also boosting your chances of convincing her to give it another go soon, too!

Is your date always going mum on you?

Is your date always going mum on you?

One of the factors that play a key role in giving a woman you’re on a date with an awesome time is getting a meaningful conversation going.

Besides giving your date the notion that you’re not a phony and willing to open up to her, you’ll also know a few personal things about her that you can use to dazzle her as you go along.

However, there are a few things that you need to keep in mind when it comes to engaging a woman you’re on a date with in a meaningful conversation.

Make sure you read on to find out what these are…

Have a confident speaking tone and rhythm.

Before even thinking about getting a conversation going, keep in mind to have your end of things up to par.

Apart from making sure to utter your words confidently and in the right volume, remember to pronounce your words clearly while at it as well.

This is to ensure that she will understand what you’re talking about, which is extremely important.

Share a funny story.

One of the easiest ways to encourage a woman to talk with you is by tickling her funny bone.

You can share a joke, tell her an amusing anecdote or perhaps describe a funny scene in a movie or TV series you just watched.

Besides making her laugh, this also promotes a sudden release of positive hormones in her body, which is a good thing.

One thing to keep in mind, though. Don’t overdo it by telling her funny yet risqué stuff or things will just lead to disaster.

Ask her something trivial.

Unlike what some guys mistakenly think, talking about complicated stuff won’t make your date think that you are smart and attractive.

She’ll just have the notion that you’re full of hot air.

Instead, ask her trivial questions like what her favorite cartoon character is or what kind of pie she prefers. Sure this sounds simplistic, but it actually helps a great deal.

You’re not just encouraging her to share ideas with you, but you’re also getting to know her better in the process.

Vary your topics.

Talking about one topic the whole time can become boring sooner or later no matter how interesting it is in the first place.

Make it a point to mix things up from time to time to keep the flow of the conversation going smoothly.