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Still not getting a BJ from her? Here are the reasons...

Still not getting a BJ from her? Here are the reasons…

I’m betting that one of the items that you’ve got in your sexual checklist is getting a blowjob from your lover when things get extra steamy between the sheets.

And with the loads and loads of pleasurable sensations that you can experience while at it, what guy in his right mind wouldn’t want one, too?

However, you still can’t convince your partner to go down on you no matter how hard you try.

I know this can be a bit frustrating, but it doesn’t mean that you won’t be able to win her over when it comes to exploring south of your border.

Chances are the following reasons prevent her from really getting in action downtown…

You don’t ask her nicely.

Asking her nicely to give you a blowjob is perhaps the first thing that you should do if you’re looking for some oral action from your lover.

Now while being a take charge guy in the bedroom is a turn on among women, simply being too bossy when you want your partner to go down on you will just ruin her sexual mood altogether.

And don’t feel bad if she says no to you when you ask her nicely. There’s always a next time.

You are whiny.

Don’t spend the next few minutes asking your partner over and over if she can give you a blowjob. Believe me, you won’t convince her to do so no matter how many times you ask her again.

You don’t keep a close eye on your hygiene down there.

If you’re looking to convince your lover to give you a BJ, making it a point to keep your hygiene down there as impeccable as you can is a must.

Keep in mind to trim excess pubic hair and give your genitals a good washing in a regular basis. She won’t be too keen to go down on you if your penis, scrotum and the areas around them look and smell funky.

You don’t give her an amazing oral sex session yourself.

It won’t be that challenging to convince your partner to go down on you if you make it a habit to knock her socks off when you give her oral sex yourself.

She will be more eager and excited to take a shot at it herself when you make each oral sex session you give her as awesome and mind-blowing as can be.

These signs mean that you're trapped in the friend zone...

These signs mean that you’re trapped in the friend zone…

The friend zone is perhaps the last place that you will want to get stuck in when relationships are concerned.

But the thing is a lot of guys don’t seem to have even the slightest inkling if they’re trapped in the friend zone or not.

If you’re looking to keep yourself from getting stuck in the friend zone anytime soon, here are some key signs that you should look out for…

She always introduces you as a “friend.”

Now while being close friends with the woman you’re really attracted to is one of the foundations of establishing a romantic relationship with her, always being introduced as a “friend” already gives you an idea how she sees you in her life.

You can correct this situation by directly telling the woman you like that you’d want to be more than friends with her to give her the notion that you’re a potential boyfriend material.

She talks about her exes and crushes when you’re together.

Although listening attentively to a woman is a priority when it comes to making a connection with her, you know you’re in the friend zone when she always talks about her exes, crushes and other relationship matters when the both of you are talking.

While this is a sign that she is comfortable enough to open up to you, you must also tell her that you’re not in it for being just friends, but also for being more than friends. Or else you’ll be simply a “shoulder to cry on” for her.

She always asks you to go shopping with her.

Even if going shopping with her means that you’re already spending time with each other, it’s another story if she just lets you accompany her to help her pick clothes and accessories. This is supposed to be a job for one of her girlfriends and not yours.

Keep in mind to take her someplace else other than shopping when she asks you. And make it a point to be an awesome date, too.

She always asks you to pick her up.

Now while it’s alright to do this once or twice, it’s definitely another story if you always find yourself picking her up at 3 AM because she is so wasted to drive.

Draw the line between being just a friend and a potential romantic interest to really hit the message home.

Keep clear from these lesser known causes of erectile dysfunction!

Keep clear from these lesser known causes of erectile dysfunction!

Achieving a strong and powerful erection is no doubt the first item in your checklist when you and your lover are already at it between the sheets.

So just imagine how you’ll feel when you simply notice that you’ve lost your ability to get rock hard on demand when the action’s already hot in the bedroom.

Quite devastating, right?

Sure you can easily rise up to the occasion nowadays, but did you know that you may be prone to erectile dysfunction right now because of lesser known causes? Make sure you read on to find out what they are…

Eating too much canned products.

I’m pretty sure that you’ve got some of your favorite canned goods stashed in your pantry right now. From corned beef to ham, there are at least a couple of cans in there for your convenience.

Now while loading up on these canned products once or twice is pretty much alright, making them a part of your regular diet will already have a negative effect on your erections.

This is because canned goods are lined with a chemical called BPA that can prevent the production and release of the ideal amount of sex hormones like testosterone in the body if regularly ingested.

Keep in mind to have more fresh stuff in your diet and a lot of water while you’re at it as well.

Having the wrong seat on your bike.

Although having vigorous exercise in your schedule is a must if you’re looking to keep your overall circulation up to par, which plays a key role in making you achieve strong and powerful erections, picking the wrong bike seat will just lead to the opposite.

This is because the erectile tissues in the penis may not be able to absorb all the blood they need to get you rock hard if the arteries and veins located in and around the perineum get pinched for a long period of time.

Go for noseless or leather bike seats that distribute the pressure on your lover limbs more evenly.

Moreover, if you feel a tingly sensation in your crotch area when you ride your bike, you should replace it as soon as you can.

Not brushing and flossing regularly.

Having gum disease and diseased teeth can allow bad bacteria to enter the bloodstream over time, which can disrupt the blood flow that should be directed to the erectile tissues in the penis.

Make it a point to brush and floss daily to prevent this from happening. Visit your dentists regularly to keep your oral health in tiptop shape, too.


So you're still not acing that first date...

So you’re still not acing that first date…

It’s either you make a good impression on the woman you’re on the first date with or blow your chances to go out with her again.

And unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly think, doing just that isn’t something that you can pull off by following the stuff that self-proclaimed “pickup artists” are saying these days.

You can’t ace a first date by acting like the alpha male or perhaps putting on loud clothes. Come to think of it and put yourself in your date’s shoes for a minute.

If the man you’re on a first date with acts like a jerk and dresses funny, would you ever think about going out with him again anytime soon? Well, there’s your answer.

Moreover, while researching extensively into the female psychology, I’ve learned a few things that can easily blow your chances of convincing a woman to go on a second date with you.

Make sure you read on to find out what these are…

You immediately put on the moves on her.

Women think of first dates as friendly situations where they can meet new people.

And you will just end up creeping her out if you start putting on the moves on her as soon as your date starts, which means that your date won’t turn out like you’d expected.

Keep things as friendly as you can to make her feel relaxed and comfortable around you, which gets you on the right track to getting that second date.

You bash previous first dates.

Although it’s important that you get to know your date better, simply doing a tell-all about the bad first dates that you had is one of the worst things that you can do.

This is because it will just make her feel that you’ve got a lot of emotional baggage to get rid of.

It will also give her the notion that if your date will turn out bad, she will also think that you’re going to gossip about her on your next first date.

You don’t ask trivial questions.

Encouraging a woman to talk to you is not about trying to impress her about the complicated stuff that you know.

You’ll be surprised with the results if you ask her simple and trivial questions.

Put yourself in your date’s shoes for a bit. Would you rather talk about a subject that you don’t have even the slightest inkling about or something you can easily relate to?