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Make her want more sex with these tips.

Make her want more sex with these tips.

If you’re anything like most men, I’m betting that you’d like to have sex as much as you can with your lover.

Now while it wasn’t that tricky to convince your partner to have a go at it between the sheets before, you simply notice that she isn’t that excited to heat things up in the bedroom with you these days.

This doesn’t mean that your days of getting your rocks off with your lover are already over.

You just have to bring back her sexual excitement levels up again and I’ll teach you a few simple tips on how to pull the whole thing off when you follow along…

Clean your bedroom.

Sure this may sound surprising, but keeping in mind to clean and organize your bedroom in a regular basis is one of the best ways to make a woman feel relaxed and comfortable when you get her in there.

And if you’ve been following HowToLastLongInBed.com for a while now, making your lover feel comfortable and relaxed is a priority if you’re looking to get her sexually aroused.

Unless she feels this way, her chances of getting in the mood for lovemaking is practically nil.

Send her kinky text messages.

Unlike what a lot of men mistakenly think, getting a woman’s sexual arousal going isn’t just about physical stimulation. It also involves stimulating her mentally, which promotes the production and release of positive hormones in her body.

One of the best ways of doing just that is sending her kinky text messages. You can simply describe what you’ll do to her when you get along together. Don’t hesitate to get very graphic with them, too.

You can also pull this off with emails, voice mails and even written notes hidden in places where she can find them like her purse.

Update your look.

If your lover isn’t that excited to give it a go in bed, there’s a big chance that you’re not paying close attention to your overall grooming anymore.

Make it a point to get rid of excess facial hair, take more showers, remember to use deodorant and pretty much anything that will make you look more appealing for her.

Have new sexual tricks up your sleeve

Perhaps your partner has lost a bit of interest in lovemaking because you’re always doing the same stuff over and over. Keep in mind to have new things in there when you can to really make her want more action between the sheets.

Having the feeling that you're coming too soon these days?

Having the feeling that you’re coming too soon these days?

Chances are you’d like to last for as long as you can when you and your lover are already at it between the sheets.

Besides giving her an amazing sex session that she won’t forget anytime soon, you’re also going to experience a lot of pleasurable sensations in the process.

However, you just notice that you’re going off much too soon during sex these days. And it’s already making you and your partner feel rather frustrated.

Unlike what a lot of so-called “sex gurus” are recommending, though, you don’t need to get your hands on gels, creams, pills and similar artificial products that claim to help extend your bedroom playing time.

Make sure you follow along to learn a few simple factors that can easily make or break your chances of lasting long in bed…

You think that you’re going to come prematurely.

Now while this may sound surprising, having the mindset that you’re going to experience premature ejaculation during sex will make you quite vulnerable to it.

This is because the brain will be stimulated to coax the hormone-producing glands to release negative hormones that practically disrupt the sexual arousal process.

And these hormones can also activate your body’s orgasmic and ejaculatory responses way ahead of time, which already gives you an idea of the disaster that they’re capable of.

Make it a point to do away with the thought that you’re going to come too soon and you’ll be on the right track.

You go too fast.

Interestingly, the brain gauges when to kick off your orgasmic and ejaculatory responses by the levels of the positive hormones in your body.

Once these hormones reach a certain level, the brain translates this as a sign that you’ve already experienced the right amount of sexual pleasure and will top the whole thing off with an orgasm and ejaculation.

Keep in mind to go as slow and easy as you can to slow down the buildup of positive hormones in your body. Plus, you’re also going to intensify the pleasurable sensations that your lover experiences while at it.

You don’t ask her to run the show.

When you focus on your partner’s sexual pleasure, the stimulation that you’re getting in your end is going to be in stops and starts.

This simply means that the positive hormones in your body won’t suddenly surge in the middle of the action and make you come sooner than you’d like to.

Keep clear from these premature ejaculation myths!

Keep clear from these premature ejaculation myths!

I’m pretty sure that one of your top priorities when it comes to lovemaking is lasting for as long as you can.

Besides giving your partner all the sexual pleasure she needs when you’re at it between the sheets, you’re also boosting your chances of making her achieve orgasm (even again and again) if you play your cards right.

However, I am really disappointed at what a lot of so-called “sex gurus” are saying these days, particularly about the stuff about premature ejaculation.

Make sure you follow along as I walk you through some of the most prevalent premature ejaculation myths and debunk them one by one…

It only happens to a select few.

Let’s start things off with the most popular premature ejaculation myth…

Unlike what most men mistakenly believe, the problem of going off too soon during lovemaking happens to a lot of guys (say millions and millions to give you a ballpark figure) around the world.

Sure going through premature ejaculation when you and your lover are getting busy in bed may be quite frustrating and embarrassing, but you are not alone in this. There are actually lots and lots of guys who are dealing with it these days.

Come to think of it. Chances are you’re experiencing it because you’re worried that you’re going to come too soon or perhaps didn’t have sex for a long time.

Once it’s there, it stays.

Just to clear things up, premature ejaculation isn’t a permanent thing.

See, premature ejaculation takes place when your sexual arousal gets disrupted or perhaps the pace and rhythm you’re having during the action are faster than they should.

What’s really interesting is once you find a way to rectify this problem, you will be surprised to know that it will go away.

It is inevitable.

A lot of self-proclaimed “sex gurus” are saying that experiencing premature ejaculation is rather expected as you get older.

Interestingly, I’ve learned during my extensive research into the male sexuality that coming too soon during sex is basically triggered by specific factors.

These factors include the speed of the sexual act, the mindset you have before and during lovemaking as well as the amount of positive hormones in your body.

And just to point out, you don’t need to get your hands on pills, creams, treated condoms as well as other artificial products to fix this problem.


Keep these tips in mind next time you're going on a first date!

Keep these tips in mind next time you’re going on a first date!

Unlike what a lot of so-called “dating gurus” are saying, acing a first date isn’t something that you can pull off immediately.

There are key factors that you should take note of to really wow the woman you’re going out with and easily convince her to have another date with you soon.

So if you’re looking to take your chances of acing your next first date, here are some important tips that you should keep in mind…

Get her in on the planning.

If you’re anything like most guys, chances are you think that all of the planning and organizing of a first date should be your responsibility.

However, you’re already missing out on a number of opportunities to impress the woman you’re going on a date with if you have this mindset.

Besides having an idea of the stuff that she likes, you will also make her feel that you’re really interested in her, which easily scores you a lot of brownie points in her book while at it.

Keep a close eye on your grooming.

Sure this may sound simplistic, but not making it a point to keep a close eye on your grooming for a first date will already lead to disaster before you know it.

This is because women are very particular with how a man looks and smells. If you don’t make the cut, she’s just going to have a surge of stress hormones in her body that won’t raise her anxiety levels, but also make her feel impatient in the process.

Just imagine how your first date will turn out when this happens.

(Here are some key grooming tips that will surely get you on the right track.)

Switch your mobile phone off.

The woman you’re going on a first date with will simply feel that she’s boring you to death if you check out your phone every couple of minutes.

Keep in mind that your texts, voice mails, status updates and tweets can wait for later. This also applies to other gadgets that you may have like tablets and mp3 players.

Listen to her attentively.

Always remember to listen to her as closely as you can when you manage to engage her in a meaningful conversation.

Besides getting to know her better, you’ll also promote a boost in positive hormones in her body, which will make her feel comfortable, relaxed and excited.

And just imagine what will happen when she starts to associate these feelings with you…