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Use this checklist as a guide when you're going down on her...

Use this checklist as a guide when you’re going down on her…

So here’s the situation…

You and your lover are already heating things up between the sheets and you’d like to take her pleasure levels up a notch by going down on her.

Unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly think, though, giving your partner an amazing oral sex session isn’t about making a beeline for her genitals and start stimulating like there’s no tomorrow.

It will just be uncomfortable for her no matter how hard you try and can easily ruin her mood for lovemaking before you know it.

But the thing is that you simply have to keep a few important pointers in mind to really knock her socks off when you explore south of her border. Make sure you follow along to find out more…

Get her mind going.

Sure the idea of oral sex is pleasuring a woman down there, but immediately doing just that before she’s completely sexually aroused will just lead to some issues as you go along.

You need to coax her brain to produce and release a lot of positive hormones first to make her erogenous zones intensely sensitive to stimulation as well as get her really wet and excited in the process.

Besides describing the things that you’re going to do to her while you’re going down on her, sending her kinky text messages before the action starts is also a good idea.

Start slow and easy.

Keep in mind that going fast while you’re exploring south of her border doesn’t mean she’s going to get loads of oral sex pleasure.

This is actually one of the biggest oral sex myths ever. While you can see porn actors stimulate their partners like there’s no tomorrow in skin flicks, the result will just be the opposite in real life.

See, going as slow and easy as you can actually gives your lover more pleasurable sensations. And unless she’s the one asking you to speed things up as you go along, don’t change your pace and rhythm.

You’re sure to see her toes curl up as well as hear her moan like crazy when you do this.

Vary your techniques.

Oral sex isn’t just about using your tongue and lips. You can actually get the job done in a lot of ways if you simply get creative enough.

You can use your fingers or mix things up with a bit of kissing, licking and caressing to keep her guessing what will you do next.

Keep these first date pointers in mind to really wow her!

Keep these first date pointers in mind to really wow her!

Unlike what a lot of so-called “dating gurus” are saying, making a first date a complete success isn’t about luck.

It actually involves a bit of planning to really give the woman you’re going on a date with an awesome time.

So if you’re looking to wow her the next time you’re on a first date, here are a few key pointers that you should keep in mind…

Let her be involved in the planning.

If you’re anything like most men, you probably think that handling the planning and organizing of a first date should be your job.

But the thing is you’re actually missing out on a lot of opportunities to give the woman you’re taking on a date with an awesome time.

Letting her in on the action helps you know key factors like the places she likes to go, her favorite food and beverage picks as well as some other attributes.

You’re sure to start things off on the right track when you do this.

Keep a close eye on your grooming.

Sure this may sound really simplistic, but how you look and smell can easily make or break your chances in terms of giving a woman an amazing time during your first date.

See, your overall appearance is what she will notice first and if it’s not up to par with her taste then you’re just going to be disappointed sooner or later with how your date will turn out.

Getting the job done isn’t complicated, too. Here are a few useful grooming tips that you should take note of.

Have a friendly mindset.

Now while a first date could be a stepping stone to a romantic relationship, thinking that you should already charm her romantically when you take her out for the first time will just backfire.

This is because women think of first dates as social situations where they can meet new friends. Kicking things off with your romantic charms right off the bat will just turn her off.

Talk about trivial stuff.

Getting a meaningful conversation is key when it comes to establishing a connection with a woman on your first date.

Make it a point to talk about trivial things to get one going. The simpler, the better.

Simply asking your date what her favorite cartoon character is or perhaps the TV show that she always tuned in to will already do the trick.

Still not convincing her to try anal sex?

Still not convincing her to try anal sex?

I’m pretty sure that getting your lover to give anal sex a go is one of the key items in your lovemaking checklist.

But the thing is you’re still having a tough time making her say yes to the whole thing until now.

There’s no need to think that you should give up on your goal to convince your lover to try anal sex, though.

Now while pulling off just that isn’t something that can be achieved at the drop of a hat, here are a few pointers that you should keep in mind to boost your chances of convincing your partner to try anal sex…

Discuss it with her outside the bedroom.

A lot of guys make the mistake of trying to convince their lover to try anal sex while they’re already heating things up between the sheets.

Besides possibly ruining her mood for sex, you’ll end up being frustrated because she will just say no in the process.

Make it a point to talk it over with her outside the bedroom to prep her mind up and keep clear from instant rejection.

Patience is a virtue.

When she says no, it means no.

You’re just running the risk of making your partner swear off anal sex in her bucket list when you pester her each time you get the chance to bring up the subject.

If she declines to give anal sex a shot when you ask her, don’t feel bad. You can ask her again sometime. There’s always another chance.

Just remember to properly space out your timing so you won’t appear obnoxious to her.

Slow and easy does it.

And when you do convince her to try anal sex, keep in mind that it’s going to be an entirely new experience for her, so do it as slow and easy as you can.

Unlike what you see in porn movies, getting fast and furious during anal sex – especially when it’s your first time – will just lead to disaster.

Let her run the show.

I’m sure that you’d like to give her as much pleasurable sensations when you do it in the backdoor so she will try anal sex again on your next lovemaking session.

Ask her show she feels as you go along to find out what makes her feel good and what doesn’t. And once you know your way around her backside during anal sex, you’re sure to hear her moaning and groaning in pleasure before long.

Here are the biggest reasons why you're coming too soon...

Here are the biggest reasons why you’re coming too soon…

If you’re anything like most guys, chances are lasting for as long as you can is one of your top priorities when things are already getting extra steamy between the sheets.

However, you seem to go off much sooner than you’d like to when you and your lover are at it these days.

But unlike what a lot of so-called “sex gurus” are recommending, there’s no need to get your hands on pills, creams and gels that claim to extend your bedroom playing time.

Sure they may offer an instant fix to the problem, but you’re simply running the risk of experiencing adverse side effects sooner or later when you use them.

Why not keep the following reasons in mind instead to help you understand why you’re coming too soon nowadays?

You don’t masturbate often.

You’re basically familiarizing yourself when your body’s orgasmic and ejaculatory responses kick in each time you masturbate.

The more you masturbate, the easier it will be for you to identify when this will happen.

Come to think of it. This will definitely help you last longer in bed and give your partner a lovemaking session that she won’t forget anytime soon, right?

You worry that you’ll go off too soon.

The brain basically uses the positive hormones that get released in the body as a gauge when to make you reach the point of no return and come during sex.

Worrying that you’re going to ejaculate prematurely encourages the hormone-producing glands to churn out their negative counterparts.

Besides making you feel more anxious than sexually aroused, these negative hormones also force the brain to activate your orgasmic and ejaculatory responses double time.

You get fast and furious as soon as you get the chance.

Sure the temptation to go full speed ahead when you’re already sexually penetrating your lover, but it actually promotes the faster release of positive hormones that your brain uses to measure when to activate your body’s orgasmic and ejaculatory responses.

Make it a point to vary your pace and rhythm to prevent this from happening.

You don’t concentrate on her sexual pleasure more.

Keep in mind that the item on your sexual checklist should be your partner’s pleasure.

Apart from driving you to give her as much pleasurable sensations as you can while the two of you are at it, your mind will also be kept occupied in the process to stave off the possibility of negative hormones getting in the picture.