It’s either you make a good impression on the woman you’re on the first date with or blow your chances to go out with her again.
And unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly think, doing just that isn’t something that you can pull off by following the stuff that self-proclaimed “pickup artists” are saying these days.
You can’t ace a first date by acting like the alpha male or perhaps putting on loud clothes. Come to think of it and put yourself in your date’s shoes for a minute.
If the man you’re on a first date with acts like a jerk and dresses funny, would you ever think about going out with him again anytime soon? Well, there’s your answer.
Moreover, while researching extensively into the female psychology, I’ve learned a few things that can easily blow your chances of convincing a woman to go on a second date with you.
Make sure you read on to find out what these are…
You immediately put on the moves on her.
Women think of first dates as friendly situations where they can meet new people.
And you will just end up creeping her out if you start putting on the moves on her as soon as your date starts, which means that your date won’t turn out like you’d expected.
Keep things as friendly as you can to make her feel relaxed and comfortable around you, which gets you on the right track to getting that second date.
You bash previous first dates.
Although it’s important that you get to know your date better, simply doing a tell-all about the bad first dates that you had is one of the worst things that you can do.
This is because it will just make her feel that you’ve got a lot of emotional baggage to get rid of.
It will also give her the notion that if your date will turn out bad, she will also think that you’re going to gossip about her on your next first date.
You don’t ask trivial questions.
Encouraging a woman to talk to you is not about trying to impress her about the complicated stuff that you know.
You’ll be surprised with the results if you ask her simple and trivial questions.
Put yourself in your date’s shoes for a bit. Would you rather talk about a subject that you don’t have even the slightest inkling about or something you can easily relate to?