I’m pretty sure that getting your lover to give anal sex a go is one of the key items in your lovemaking checklist.
But the thing is you’re still having a tough time making her say yes to the whole thing until now.
There’s no need to think that you should give up on your goal to convince your lover to try anal sex, though.
Now while pulling off just that isn’t something that can be achieved at the drop of a hat, here are a few pointers that you should keep in mind to boost your chances of convincing your partner to try anal sex…
Discuss it with her outside the bedroom.
A lot of guys make the mistake of trying to convince their lover to try anal sex while they’re already heating things up between the sheets.
Besides possibly ruining her mood for sex, you’ll end up being frustrated because she will just say no in the process.
Make it a point to talk it over with her outside the bedroom to prep her mind up and keep clear from instant rejection.
Patience is a virtue.
When she says no, it means no.
You’re just running the risk of making your partner swear off anal sex in her bucket list when you pester her each time you get the chance to bring up the subject.
If she declines to give anal sex a shot when you ask her, don’t feel bad. You can ask her again sometime. There’s always another chance.
Just remember to properly space out your timing so you won’t appear obnoxious to her.
Slow and easy does it.
And when you do convince her to try anal sex, keep in mind that it’s going to be an entirely new experience for her, so do it as slow and easy as you can.
Unlike what you see in porn movies, getting fast and furious during anal sex – especially when it’s your first time – will just lead to disaster.
Let her run the show.
I’m sure that you’d like to give her as much pleasurable sensations when you do it in the backdoor so she will try anal sex again on your next lovemaking session.
Ask her show she feels as you go along to find out what makes her feel good and what doesn’t. And once you know your way around her backside during anal sex, you’re sure to hear her moaning and groaning in pleasure before long.