Chances are one of your top sexual priorities is to last for as long as you can when you and your lover are already at it between the sheets.
Apart from giving your partner an overload of pleasurable sensations that will easily make her reach the Big O as you go along, you will also keep clear from feeling rather disappointed when you come sooner than you’d like to.
But the thing is I am really disappointed with a lot of the advice that self-proclaimed “sex gurus” are dishing out these days.
They don’t just point out that premature ejaculation is permanent and age-related, but also recommend the use of artificial products like topical gels, creams and pills that supposedly fix the issue.
Sure they might give you the relief that you want in terms of lasting longer during sex, but you’re going to be in for some adverse side effects in the long run.
Why don’t you follow along to learn some natural and effective ways to keep premature ejaculation at bay?
Keep a positive mindset.
I know this sounds surprising right now, but your mindset actually plays a key role when lasting for as long as you can in the bedroom is concerned. See, thinking positively encourages the constant production and release of the right hormones that keep your sexual arousal going ideally and naturally staves off premature ejaculation.
Thinking negative thoughts basically promotes the release of negative hormones that do just the opposite.
And when I say “opposite,” I mean “making you come sooner than you should.”
Go slow and easy.
Now while the temptation to go fast and furious when you get the chance to sexually penetrate your lover is really great, keep in mind that doing so will just make your brain think that you’ve already experienced all the sexual pleasure that you deserve and activate your orgasmic and ejaculatory responses way ahead of time.
Make it a point to go as slow and easy as you can and you’ll be on the right track. The pleasurable sensations that your partner will experience will also be more intense when you do this.
Focus more on her pleasure.
A lot of guys seem to overlook the fact that becoming too absorbed with their own sexual arousal will prevent them from really controlling when to pop during lovemaking.
Remember to make her pleasure your top priority when you’re at it in bed and you’ll be surprised with how much longer you will able to last. Making oral sex a mainstay in your checklist is definitely a plus.