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Always remember these important anal sex pointers!

So here’s the situation…

You’ve finally convinced your lover to give anal sex a go, but you’re not quite sure how to really pull the whole thing off.

There’s no need to worry just yet though. I’ll walk you through some very important anal sex pointers that you should take note of to really make the experience as pleasurable for your partner…

Don’t copy pornstar moves.

Now while a lot of guys think that the most sensible thing to do is get a few anal sex tips from watching porn movies, it’s actually the worst move that you can go for.

See, like the term implies, a porn “movie” is played by actors and actresses, which work under the guidance of a director. You don’t see the work put in to make the scenes, the cuts, the edits as well as the other stuff that goes on when the camera rolls.

And chances are the both of you are just going to be disappointed when you copy pornstar moves during anal sex.

Warm her up as much as you can.

Before you even think about doing anything, make it a point to really get your partner as sexually aroused as possible. If she’s not totally in the mood, chances are you won’t be able to convince her to loosen up for anal action no matter how hard you try.

Have lots of lube ready.

The anus doesn’t have the ability to produce its natural lubrication and needs a bit of help to make sexual penetration smooth and easy. You’ll need a lot of lube to pull the whole thing off.

Make it a point to apply a liberal amount on your penis and on her anus as well. Just to reiterate, keep in mind to put on a lot. Sure this may sound rather surprising, but it’s a must that you put on a liberal amount.

And when you feel that your thrusts while the action is already going on aren’t as smooth and easy as before, it’s time to reapply.

Gauge her reactions with your thrusts.

Don’t just go ahead and stick the whole thing as soon as you get the chance. Keep in mind to start as slow and easy as you can.

Begin by just getting the tip in. When she’s okay with it, stick it in deeper. I know this sounds quite tedious, but she will feel more relaxed while at it and enjoy the experience more in the process.

Are you noticing that you're coming too soon during sex these days?

Are you noticing that you’re coming too soon during sex these days?

Lasting for as long as you can during lovemaking is one of the key factors when it comes to really giving your lover a sex session she won’t forget anytime soon.

Unlike what a lot of so-called “sex gurus” are saying these days, you don’t have to go for pills that claim they can hold back premature ejaculation or its counterparts that come in the form of creams and gels.

I’ve learned during my extensive research into the male sexuality that there are bad habits that can cause you to come sooner than you’d like to during sex. Make sure you read on to learn what these are…

Bad Habit #1: You always worry you will ejaculate prematurely.

At its simplest, sexual arousal is caused by a surge of positive hormones released in the body when the brain detects that things are already getting extra steamy between you and your lover.

Besides making the sensations that you feel pleasurable and get your rock hard, these hormones also help the brain gauge when it’s going to activate the body’s orgasmic and ejaculatory responses.

However, something else happens when you worry that you will come too soon. Negative hormones get in the picture and disrupt the whole process. Besides making you lose the intensity of your erections, you’ll also go off sooner than expected.

Just think happy thoughts while you’re at it and you’ll be on the right track.

Bad Habit #2: You go full speed ahead when you get the chance.

Like I’ve explained earlier, positive hormones help the brain gauge if it’s already time to activate your orgasmic and ejaculatory responses. If the brain perceives that it’s getting an overload of the same in a short period of time, you’re going to pop prematurely.

Make it a point to go as slow and easy as you can when the action’s already getting hot between the sheets. Apart from preventing you from coming too soon, your partner is also going to experience a lot of more pleasurable sensations in the process.

Bad Habit #3: Be creative when pleasuring your lover.

See, it’s not just your penis that can give your partner awesome sensations during sex. You can also use your fingers, tongue and lips when you’re in the heat of the moment.

Giving your lover a bout of oral sex that will knock her socks off is also a great strategy to keep premature ejaculation at bay.

 

So you'd like to give her an amazing oral sex session...

So you’d like to give her an amazing oral sex session…

If you’re anything like most men, you probably think that oral is one of the most effective ways of really knocking your lover’s socks off when the action is already happening between the sheets.

However, no matter how much she loves the oral sex techniques that you do when you’re going down on her in the bedroom, chances are they won’t be as pleasurable as you’d like them to be sooner or later if you don’t keep in mind a few useful pointers.

Make sure you follow along to find out more…

Show your enthusiasm to do it.

One thing a lot of guys seem to overlook is that enthusiasm counts a lot when you have exploring south of her border on your sexual checklist.

This is because you’re making your lover feel that you actually love to give her oral sex instead of treating it as a burden that you have to do. Keep in mind to show as much enthusiasm as you can while at it and you’ll be surprised how much she will enjoy the whole thing.

Don’t go straight to the erogenous zones.

Sure the whole point of oral sex may be stimulating her erogenous zones like the clitoris and nipples, but simply going straight to them as soon as you get the chance will only make your partner feel uncomfortable.

See, a woman’s body needs to completely prep up during sexual arousal to make these erogenous zones churn out the pleasurable sensations that they are capable of producing. Getting to them before they’re ready will simply lead to the opposite.

Never reveal your strategy.

Now while communication plays a key role when it comes to giving your partner an oral sex session she won’t be forgetting soon, giving her a play-by-play commentary of the things you’ll do when you’re at it is just going to ruin her mood.

Besides making her lose her anticipation of the pleasurable sensations that she’s going to experience, she will find even your most effective techniques boring and dull as well.

Don’t stop.

Keeping at it as steady as you can is a surefire way to really give her the oral sex pleasure that she’s always wanted. Don’t break your pace even if she asks you to or if her body is already writhing wildly with pleasure.

You’re just ensuring that her surge of positive hormones won’t stop and she will have an awesome time.

Stop believing in these premature ejaculation myths!

Stop believing in these premature ejaculation myths!

How long you last between the sheets plays a very important role when it comes to giving your lover a sex session that will definitely knock her socks off.

But what’s really interesting is a lot of guys make a very simple mistake that inadvertently boosts their vulnerability of experiencing premature ejaculation when things are getting hot in the bedroom.

And this mistake is believing in a few premature ejaculation myths that only make the whole thing worse. Make sure you follow along to find out what these are and improve your chances at really lasting longer in bed…

Premature Ejaculation Myth #1: It becomes more intense as you get older.

I’m pretty sure that you’ve already heard that your ability to last for as long as you can during lovemaking becomes more and more unreliable when you reach a certain age.

However, I’ve learned during my extensive research into the male sexuality that age doesn’t have anything to do with premature ejaculation at all.

The same key factors like the speed and intensity of your thrusts apply no matter how old you are when it comes to activating your body’s orgasmic and ejaculatory responses.

If you make it a point to go as slow and easy as you can and concentrating more on your partner’s pleasure, chances are you’ll be able to hold back premature ejaculation without a fuss.

Premature Ejaculation Myth #2: It is abnormal.

Some men think that premature ejaculation is something that is unnatural, but it actually isn’t. A lot of guys around the world are experiencing the same sexual issue. Sure going off too soon while you’re at it in the bedroom can be rather worrying, but it’s doesn’t mean that you’re the only one suffering from it.

Premature Ejaculation Myth #3: It is permanent.

This is perhaps the biggest premature ejaculation myth of all.

Now while coming really early before you’ve even got started between the sheets can make you feel really anxious, this sexual issue can be fixed if you know what to do.

And the biggest mistake that you can ever make is reaching for artificial products that claim to get rid of premature ejaculation like pills, creams and gels that can make the problem even worse in the long run.

Besides making sure that you only have happy thoughts when things are heating up in bed, keeping in mind to take things smooth and easy is also a smart move to keep premature ejaculation at bay.