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So you'd like to make masturbation more pleasurable...

So you’d like to make masturbation more pleasurable…

I’m pretty sure that masturbation is a mainstay in your regular schedule. Come to think of it. Having a go at “choking your chicken” is no doubt one of the most pleasurable activities that can do by your lonesome.

However, doing the whole thing in your own usual way again and again can be rather monotonous and dull sooner or later. So why not follow along and find out a few simple pointers that can help make your masturbation sessions more pleasurable?

Masturbation Pleasure Booster #1: Use your non-dominant hand.

The next time you’re looking to “attack the one-eyed purple-headed warrior,” make it a point to use your non-dominant hand to stimulate yourself.

Sure this sounds rather surprising right now, but the sensations that you’re going to experience when you do this are not just going to be unpredictable since you’re not using the hand that you normally “beat the meat” with, but also quite awesome while at it.

Just keep in mind to use an ample amount of lube while you’re getting in action to keep things smooth sailing as you go along.

Masturbation Pleasure Booster #2: Play a bit of music.

I know this may seem like something that you should have in your sexual checklist when you and your lover are already at it between the sheets, but having music playing in the background when you’re “badgering the witness” can help boost the amount positive hormones in your body.

Besides making you feel more sexually aroused, this surge of positive hormones will also make your erogenous zones more sensitive to stimulation, which simply means every stroke will be more pleasurable.

Keep in mind to go for slow jazz and ballads since they have been seen to help with coaxing these positive hormones to surge better.

Masturbation Pleasure Booster #3: Don’t treat it like a race.

Sure the whole idea of masturbating is to achieve orgasm and ejaculate while at it. However, a lot of guys seem to go fast and furious as soon as they get the chance to masturbate.

This can easily make or break your chances of enjoying your masturbation session. You’ve got to allow the positive hormones to reach their ideal levels first or else you won’t experience the pleasure that you’re looking to go through.

Remember to go at it slow and easy. Sure you can go faster as you go along, but you need to warm up your body properly first.

 

Boost your chances of acing a date with these tips.

Boost your chances of acing a date with these tips.

Unlike what a lot of so-called “pickup artists” are saying nowadays, impressing a woman on a date isn’t about putting on the most ridiculous outfit you can get your hands on as well as acting self-important to give her the notion that you’re the alpha male.

However, I’ve learned a few useful things during my extensive research into the female psychology that may just help boost your chances of acing your next date.

Make sure you follow along to find out more…

Picking the venue is critical.

Now while most guys mistakenly think that their odds of acing a date become much higher if they go for the most expensive place that they can find, doing just that will actually lead to the opposite.

Ultra-posh venues will simply make a woman feel that she’s on a job interview instead of a date and that will definitely affect things in a great way.

Make it a point to let her in on the planning and organizing of your date instead. Besides having a clue of where she’s really like to have it, you’ll also make her feel that you’re really into her.

Grooming is an essential.

Making sure that you look and smell great is a must if you’re hoping to dazzle a woman on a date.

Apart from keeping in mind to take a long shower and getting rid of excessive facial hair, slapping on some deodorant and picking clothes that are not just comfortable, but also suitable for the occasion should also be in your checklist.

Having a spritz or two of light cologne also helps.

Talk about simple stuff.

Some guys mistakenly think that talking about complicated things during a date makes the women they are going out with that they’re smart. But the thing is this will just bore or even annoy her as you go along.

You can ask her about her favorite TV shows, pets, books, cartoon characters and similar stuff. The simpler, the better. And you’ll encourage her to open up more as long as you use this strategy, too.

Listen to her intently.

Listening is key when it comes to acing a date. Apart from making her feel that you’re really interested with what she’s saying, hanging on to her every word also helps ease whatever anxiety she’s feeling at the moment.

(Now we’ve got that covered, switching your phone off is also a smart idea during the same.)

Make your foreplay sessions even more awesome with these pointers.

Make your foreplay sessions even more awesome with these pointers.

If you’re anything like most guys, you probably have foreplay in your sexual checklist to make sure that your lover is really good and ready for action between the sheets.

Now while you may already have a few tried and proven foreplay techniques up your sleeve that can easily get your partner in the mood for sex, here are some tips that you can add to your roster to really knock her socks off…

Awesome Foreplay Pointer #1: Keep your bedroom in apple pie order.

I know you’re wondering why this is one’s on the list, but keeping in mind to clean and organize your bedroom as often as you can help make your lover feel more comfortable and relaxed when you’re already getting it on in bed.

See, the more relaxed and comfortable a woman is, the more her brain is stimulated to produce and release positive hormones that get her ideally sexually aroused and allow her to experience the pleasurable sensations that she wants while at it.

Awesome Foreplay Pointer #2: Go painstakingly slow.

Now while I’m sure that you’d like to get at it as soon as you get the opportunity, making it a point to go as slow and easy as you can is a great idea to give her an awesome foreplay session.

See, the slower and easier you go, the more sensitive she will become to your stimulation, which will make it easier for you to give her an orgasm or two as you go along. Only take your rhythm up a notch when you notice that she couldn’t take it any longer.

Awesome Foreplay Pointer #3: Don’t focus on one erogenous zone.

If you’re anything like most men, you probably concentrate on the clitoris and nipples during foreplay. However, you’re simply missing out on a lot of pleasurable sensations when you do this.

Remember that there are numerous erogenous zones in your lover’s body, aside from the nipples and clitoris. You’ve also got the back of the neck, the inner thighs, the wrists, the mons pubis as well as the abdomen. Make it a point to give them the TLC they deserve.

Awesome Foreplay Pointer #4: Use words to heighten her sexual pleasure.

Don’t be silent when you’re getting busy during foreplay. Tell her how hot she makes you while you pleasure her erogenous zones. Make her feel like she’s the most beautiful and most desirable woman in the planet.

You’ll just be surprised how much she will be enjoying the experience in the process.

Do these to keep the fire of your relationship burning.

Do these to keep the fire of your relationship burning.

If you’re a man in a steady relationship, chances are you’d like to keep your girlfriend as loyal and devoted to you as much as possible.

However, you’re simply noticing that the romance between you and your significant other isn’t like it used to. There’s no need to get really anxious that your relationship is already headed to the dumps, though.

Make sure you read on to find out how you can really keep the fire burning in your relationship.

Make her feel that you’re grateful for having her in your life.

A lot of guys seem to disregard the fact that getting romantic with their girlfriends doesn’t end when they’re already in a relationship.

Keep in mind to frequently show and make her feel that you’re really thankful you have her in your life.

It could be through sending her sweet text messages and emails or perhaps a love note hidden in her purse or somewhere she can easily find them.

Common courtesies should be a mainstay in your checklist.

Don’t forget to have common courtesies either in words and gestures as a mainstay in your daily checklist with your girlfriend.

Sure this may sound rather cheesy, but it’s absolutely a must if you’re looking to keep the fire burning in your relationship.

Make sure you say “thank you” and “please” when communicating with her. Showing her your chivalric side like holding a door open or perhaps offering her your coat when the weather is nippy are also smart moves to give her the notion you’re still really into her.

Always have time for the two of you.

Don’t ever forget to have a regular schedule for bonding and dating with your significant other.

You could have it on weekends or perhaps just any day that the both of you don’t have any other engagements to attend to. It doesn’t mean that you’re already boyfriend and girlfriend that dates should be out of your schedule.

Keep in mind to go to new places and experience new stuff with her as well while you’re at it to really take the excitement factor up a notch.

Tell her “I love you” each time you can.

Now while this may seem the most simplistic of the pointers I’ve pointed out here, but simply telling your GF you love her (and how much you do, too) frequently keeps her feeling relaxed and comfortable in your relationship.