Unlike what a lot of so-called “pickup artists” are saying these days, acing a first date isn’t just about giving the woman you’re out with that you are the alpha male by acting really obnoxious or perhaps wearing the loudest outfit you can put together.
Come to think of it. If you show up on your date with a really bad fashion sense and act like a jerk, how do you think the whole thing will turn out?
Now while I don’t believe that there are surefire tips when it comes to acing a first date, I learned during my extensive research into the female psychology that there are key pointers that you should keep in mind to boost your chances of pulling it off.
Make sure you follow along to find out more…
Remember that it’s just a first date.
Most men seem to believe that a failing to ace a first date is already the end of their dating career. If it won’t turn out like you’re hoping it to be, there will be other first dates that you’ll have the opportunity to ace in the near future.
Let her pick the venue.
A lot of guys mistakenly think that simply choosing a really fancy restaurant for a first date will already make them ace it almost immediately.
But the thing is I learned during my research that doing just that will only lead to the opposite since women will feel that they’re going to a job interview instead of a date.
Make it a point to let her in on the planning process of your first date and ask her where she wants to go. You’ll simply be surprised with how sociable and comfortable she will be during your date.
Keep the conversation light and simple.
Women tend to be more open if they can easily relate with the stuff you’re talking about. And making her do just that is talking about the most trivial things you can think about.
I know this sounds rather surprising, but your date will be more eager to exchange meaningful ideas with you if you ask her what her favorite book is or perhaps the TV show she is fan of.
Don’t be touchy-feely.
Now while emphasizing your words with minor gestures is a good idea, overdoing the whole thing by constantly touching your date will only lead to disaster. She will only think that you’re fresh and become more wary of your intentions.