Lasting for as long as you can during lovemaking is one of the key factors when it comes to really giving your lover a sex session she won’t forget anytime soon.
Unlike what a lot of so-called “sex gurus” are saying these days, you don’t have to go for pills that claim they can hold back premature ejaculation or its counterparts that come in the form of creams and gels.
I’ve learned during my extensive research into the male sexuality that there are bad habits that can cause you to come sooner than you’d like to during sex. Make sure you read on to learn what these are…
Bad Habit #1: You always worry you will ejaculate prematurely.
At its simplest, sexual arousal is caused by a surge of positive hormones released in the body when the brain detects that things are already getting extra steamy between you and your lover.
Besides making the sensations that you feel pleasurable and get your rock hard, these hormones also help the brain gauge when it’s going to activate the body’s orgasmic and ejaculatory responses.
However, something else happens when you worry that you will come too soon. Negative hormones get in the picture and disrupt the whole process. Besides making you lose the intensity of your erections, you’ll also go off sooner than expected.
Just think happy thoughts while you’re at it and you’ll be on the right track.
Bad Habit #2: You go full speed ahead when you get the chance.
Like I’ve explained earlier, positive hormones help the brain gauge if it’s already time to activate your orgasmic and ejaculatory responses. If the brain perceives that it’s getting an overload of the same in a short period of time, you’re going to pop prematurely.
Make it a point to go as slow and easy as you can when the action’s already getting hot between the sheets. Apart from preventing you from coming too soon, your partner is also going to experience a lot of more pleasurable sensations in the process.
Bad Habit #3: Be creative when pleasuring your lover.
See, it’s not just your penis that can give your partner awesome sensations during sex. You can also use your fingers, tongue and lips when you’re in the heat of the moment.
Giving your lover a bout of oral sex that will knock her socks off is also a great strategy to keep premature ejaculation at bay.