If you’re anything like most men, chances are you’d like to last for as long as you can when you and your lover are at it between the sheets.
Apart from giving your partner a sex session she won’t forget anytime soon, the pleasurable sensations that you’re also going to experience while at it will be very amazing.
However, you’re simply noticing that your ability to last long in the bedroom these days is dipping down. And it’s already getting you worried.
But before you get your hands on pills, creams and other artificial stuff that claim to get the job done, let’s have a quick rundown on the possible reasons why you’re coming too soon nowadays…
You’re going too fast.
Sure this may sound simplistic, but the pace you’re setting while you’re getting in action in bed with your lover will significantly affect the time you’re going to ejaculate.
See, the brain gauges when to activate your orgasmic and ejaculatory responses by measuring the amount of positive hormones that are present in your body. If it detects that you’ve got enough in your body, you’ll come.
Keep in mind to get things as slow and easy as you can and you will be fine.
You think you’re going to come too soon.
Sexual arousal is set off by the production and release of positive hormones in the body. As soon as you have an ideal amount in your system, you’ll be ready for action between the sheets.
But the thing is something happens when you think that you’re going to come too soon in the process. The brain is stimulated to churn out negative hormones that only do the opposite of their positive counterparts.
Make it a point to think positive while you’re at it!
You only focus on your pleasure.
One of the key reasons why some men tend to drop their load sooner than they’d like to is not concentrating on their partner’s pleasure. Sexual penetration is one thing, but really taking care of business is another.
Remember the previous item we went over with? An overload of pleasure levels for you will make your brain activate your orgasmic and ejaculatory responses faster.
Why not concentrate more on your lover’s pleasure while at it? Remember that her chances of reaching the Big O again and again will be higher this way as well. (Here’s a surefire foreplay tip that will help you get the job done.)