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Keep clear from these first date conversation no-no’s!

So you’ve finally convinced the woman you’ve got your eye on to go on a first date with you and you’d like to ace the whole thing…

But the thing is acing a first date is more than just picking a nice venue, looking and smelling great as well as getting a meaningful conversation going while at it.

You should also keep a close eye on the conversation topics that you choose to start a conversation with her. And a lot of men tend to overlook the following that could easily ruin a first date in no time…

Your exes

Now while establishing a romantic connection with her is one of your priorities when you’re taking her out for the first time, getting your exes in the picture is a big no-no that you should keep clear of.

This is because you will only give her the notion that you still haven’t gotten over them completely and you are not ready for a new relationship yet. And that’s going to dampen your chances of convincing her to go on a second date with you, too.

Your ideal marriage and family

Unlike guys who are primarily compelled to go on a date with a woman to get their chances of starting a romantic relationship with her, women generally go on dates to make friends.

And you’ll just end up creeping her out when you discuss your plans of marrying and having a family when having a conversation with your date.

She’ll just feel really anxious and impatient when you do this. A better way to do this would be to talk about trivial things like what your family does during holidays or your best vacation memories with your siblings.

Your biological clock

Come to think of it. If you put yourself in your date’s shoes and you hear about how he’s getting old and he needs to settle down, that’s just plain weird, right? Enough said. This is quite similar to the previous item, but it’s too weird not to give another go.

Your previous bad first dates

Badmouthing your previous bad dates is a very big no-no when you go out with a woman the first time. This simply gives the woman you’re out with the notion that if your date won’t go as planned, you’ll badmouth her in your future dates as well.

Why not replicate the good stuff that happened in your previous dates to make your present one as amazing as can be for her?

So you'd like to make her enjoy sex more...

So you’d like to make her enjoy sex more…

Chances are you’d like to give your lover a sexual experience she won’t forget anytime soon as soon as things get hot between the sheets.

Now while you may think that you already know all the stuff that really gets her going in the bedroom and makes her reach the Big O, updating your lovemaking checklist isn’t a bad idea at all.

So if you’re looking to jazz up your sexual playbook and take your partner’s pleasure levels up a notch, here are a few simple ways to help you pull off just that…

Heat her up outside of the bedroom.

Sure this sounds a bit surprising, but the brain plays a very important role in making a woman totally sexually aroused. And stimulating it properly before the action start between the sheets is sure going to spike her mood.

Make it a point to call your lover up and describe to her the things that you’ll do to her once you two get alone. You can also do this by sending her naughty and risqué text messages or emails.

Ask her where and how she wants to be stimulated.

Nobody knows your lover’s body like she does. And that gives her a lot of advantage when it comes to identifying the erogenous zones that will provide the most pleasurable sensations for her as well as the techniques that will do the same.

Besides reinforcing the sexual hot spots that you already have an idea of, you’ll be surprised with the new stuff that you will learn in the process as well.

Make it a point to appreciate her.

Did you know that appreciating your lover while the action’s getting hot in the bedroom actually helps boosting the amount of positive hormones like oxytocin and dopamine, which are basically needed to get and keep her sexually aroused.

Simply telling her how hot her body looks when the action is going on or perhaps appreciate the way she pleasures your erogenous zones is one surefire way to pull this off.

Let her run the show.

Sure you may be the one who is always leading the action when the two of you are already at it in the bedroom, but it’s a good idea to allow your lover to run things between the sheets from time to time.

You’ll be surprised how much more she will be into the whole thing as well.

So you're worried that your erections are not as strong as they used to...

So you’re worried that your erections are not as strong as they used to…

There’s a pretty big chance that you consider your erections as very important factor in your sex life.

Besides making it possible for you to experience lots and lots of pleasurable sensations during lovemaking, it also gives you the chance to give your lover a sex session she won’t forget anytime soon when your erections are powerful and intense.

However, you’re just noticing that the strength and quality of your erections are becoming quite weaker these days and it’s already getting you worried. There’s no need to reach for that blue pill yet though.

Here are a few ridiculously simple tricks to keep your erections really powerful…

Drink more water.

See, making it a habit to drink a glass of water doesn’t just help slake thirst or perhaps make you feel cooler when the weather is a bit warm for your taste.

It also helps keep your blood vessels, arteries and veins to stay as hydrated as can be, which maintains their ideal elasticity. Keeping them that way allows them to send blood wherever it’s needed in the body.

Given that blood plays an important role in achieving erections, habitually downing at least 6 to 8 glasses of water should be a priority in your checklist.

Have more fiber in your diet.

Now that we’ve highlighted the role of blood in getting you rock hard for a sex session, it’s also necessary to keep your blood pressure levels ideal or else you’ll find yourself unable to rise up to the occasion when things get hot between the sheets.

One way of maintain ideal blood pressure levels is making fiber a staple in your regular diet. With that said, it’s also important to keep clear from loading up on too much oily and salty stuff.

I’m not saying that you should completely stop enjoying your favorite snacks and treats. Just keep them minimal and you’ll stay on the right track.

Sweat it out regularly.

Making it a point to exercise in a regular basis helps keep your heart and blood channels functioning up to par. Simply having a 15 to 20 minute workout session every day will do wonders for your erections, not mentioning your overall sexual stamina.

You can either have a bout of brisk walking, slow jogging or perhaps giving your bike a ride. I’m not suggesting that you become a hardcore gym buff though. Just make exercising a daily habit and you’ll find your erections as strong and powerful as ever.

Here are a few simple pointers to make foreplay more pleasurable for her...

Here are a few simple pointers to make foreplay more pleasurable for her…

Foreplay plays a very important role when it comes to getting a woman ready for lovemaking and giving her the sexual satisfaction that she wants when the action starts between the sheets.

Now while I’m sure that you’ve already got a few mainstay foreplay tricks in your arsenal that you bring into play when things get extra steamy in the bedroom, here are a few simple pointers that will definitely make the whole even more awesome for your partner…

Foreplay Booster #1: Clean your bedroom.

Unlike guys that can get ready for lovemaking at the drop of a hat, women need to feel really relaxed and comfortable before they can get their freak on in bed.

Perhaps one of the most important factors a lot of men tend to overlook in terms of boosting a woman’s foreplay pleasure levels is the cleanliness of the bedroom where the sexy action will take place.

Simply make it a habit to clean and organize your bedroom regularly to pull this off. Besides picking up the pace on your partner’s sexual arousal, you’ll also give her a foreplay session she won’t forget anytime soon.

Foreplay Booster #2: Explore new erogenous zones.

Sure you may have already pinpointed her favorite erogenous zones when things get hot between the sheets, but stimulating them again and again will just reduce the pleasurable sensations that she’ll experience in the process.

Chances are you make a beeline for her breasts and clitoris when the action starts. However, there are a lot of other erogenous hot spots that you can focus on like the back of the neck, inner thighs, the lower abdomen as well as the mons pubis.

Foreplay Booster #3: Go painstakingly slow.

If you’re anything like most guys, I’m pretty sure that you are tempted to have a go at foreplay as fast and furious as you can.

Although this technique can still somehow give your partner pleasurable sensations, there is also a big possibility that she will feel rather uncomfortable as you go along. Make it a point to go as slow as you can.

Besides being a way to tease her, this will also promote a surge of positive hormones like dopamine and oxytocin that will really boost her chances of reaching the Big O sooner than you’d expect.

Foreplay Booster #4: Don’t stop.

This is perhaps  the most straightforward pointer here. When she asks you to stop what you’re doing, don’t. This just means that she’s already in the zone.