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Here are key erection sappers that should you avoid!

Here are key erection sappers that should you avoid!

If you’re anything like most men, you probably consider the power of your erections as one of the most important factors in your sex life.

Aside from making you capable of giving your lover the sexual satisfaction that she wants when things get extra steamy between the sheets, you’re also get to experience a lot of pleasurable sensations yourself in the process.

Now while you may think that the strength and quality of your erections are quite ideal these days, your ability to get rock hard on demand can easily weaken sooner or later if you don’t keep a few key things in mind that can make you prone to the softie syndrome.

Make sure you follow along to find out what these are to keep on getting strong and powerful erections each time you and your partner are already at it in the bedroom…

Erection Sapper #1: Lack of regular exercise.

Now while I am not suggesting that you should immediately become a hardcore gym buff to maintain the power of your erections, making it a point to exercise in a regular basis should be a priority.

This is to maintain the ideal blood flow in your body, which plays a key role in firming up the erectile tissues in the penis during sexual arousal. More blood flow to them means strong and powerful erections each and every time.

And no regular exercise can significantly affect your overall circulation in the long run.

You can choose what workout to do to sweat it out, too. Apart from having a bout of slow jogging or brisk walking, you can also give your bike a ride as well. Simply vigorously doing them for 15 to 20 minutes daily will already do the trick.

Erection Sapper #2: Unhealthy diet.

The body needs essential vitamins and nutrients to keep on functioning properly. And unless you load up on the right stuff regularly, things are going to fizzle out between the sheets the least you expect.

Although I’m not saying that you should completely swear off your favorite snacks and drinks, just keep in mind to only have them from time to time and indulge more in fresh fruits and vegetables as well as other healthy edibles.

Erection Sapper #3: Drinking too much alcohol.

To put it simply, having excessive levels of alcohol in the body tends to make the blood vessels tighten up, preventing ideal circulation that will make you have a tough time getting an erection.

And if you think that’s horrible, drinking like a fish also disrupts a part of the brain that is responsible for sexual arousal and enjoyment. How’s that for two for two?

Always keep clear of these first date mistakes!

Always keep clear of these first date mistakes!

Chances are convincing a woman to go on a second date with you is the top item in your checklist when you go out with her for the very first time.

But the thing is you’re simply noticing that your success rate of successfully getting a second date is not like what it used to these days.

This doesn’t mean that you’ve already lost your touch when it comes to convincing women to go out with you a second time though. There’s a big possibility that you’re just making a few first date no-no’s.

Make sure you follow along to find out what these are…

You take her to an extra posh place.

Now while you may think that picking out the most expensive and most extravagant restaurant in town is one way of impressing a woman on your first date, this is actually a misconception.

This is because she will have the notion that she’s going to something rather serious and unfriendly like a job interview instead of a date.

Instead of picking some ultra posh place, make it a point to let your date decide where she wants to have it. Besides making her feel more relaxed around you, she also won’t be that reserved when you’re having a conversation.

You don’t switch off your mobile phone.

The next time you go out on a first date, keep in mind to switch off your mobile phone or perhaps toggle it on silent mode. This also applies to other gadgets like mp3 players and tablets that you may have with you.

This is because neglecting to do so will simply make your date feel that you’re not really into her and will become quite anxious and impatient while at it.

Sure the temptation to post a new tweet or status update may be great, but come to think of it. Is it really worth it that you’re putting your chances of scoring a second date at risk?

You talk about serious and complicated stuff.

Now while we’ve previously discussed the importance of stimulating a woman’s brain when it comes to dating (as well as prepping her up for action in between the sheets), overdoing the whole thing will only lead to disaster.

And while we’re on the subject, keep in mind not to talk about complicated computer programs, religion, past relationships as well as you biological clock to prevent her from feeling crept out in the process.

Wow her when you pleasure these commonly overlooked erogenous zones...

Wow her when you pleasure these commonly overlooked erogenous zones…

If you’re anything like most men, chances are you’ve already got a few foreplay tricks up your sleeve to really heat your lover up for action between the sheets.

And it’s really important to properly get your partner going for lovemaking or else she won’t be that sexually aroused.

Besides not being ideally wet down there, she also won’t experience the pleasurable sensations that she wants while at it, even if you’re already bringing your A-game into play.

However, I’ve learned during my extensive research into the female sexuality that there are a few commonly overlooked erogenous zones that are sure to take your lover’s sexual arousal to a whole new level when you give them the TLC they deserve.

Let’s have a quick rundown on what these are…

The areolas

Chances are you go straight to the nipples when you and your partner are already at it in the bedroom. But the thing is that making a beeline to the nipples as soon as you get the chance can either be rather uncomfortable or plainly painful for your lover.

And if you keep on doing it, chances are she won’t enjoy the experience and may even ruin her mood for lovemaking in the process.

Make it a point to start things off by stimulating her areolas or the sides of her nipples. Now while they may not have the same amount of sensitive nerve endings as their nipple counterparts, areolas still have got enough to electrify her as you go along.

The back of the neck

I’m sure you find this one surprising being on this list, but the back of the neck or nape can easily give her a lot of pleasurable sensations when properly stimulated.

This is because apart from being located somewhere on her body that she can’t see you working your magic on, which gets her mind going and intensifying the sensations that she’s going to feel, it’s also got a lot of sensitive nerve endings that are just waiting to be activated.

A bit of fondling, kissing and licking will easily do the trick when you pleasure the back of her neck as well.

The inner thighs

At its simplest, the inner thighs are very near the clitoris and vagina, which your lover assumes that you’re going to stimulate when you explore south of her border.

Surprise your partner by pleasuring her inner thighs first. She’ll feel teased because it’s satisfying and mysterious at the same time because she doesn’t know where you will go next.

And that just means her sexual arousal will be off the charts even more.

Looking to upgrade your oral sex strategy? Read this!

Looking to upgrade your oral sex strategy? Read this!

I’m pretty sure that oral sex is in your list of bedroom techniques to really give your lover a mind-blowing experience each and every time.

Apart from helping boost your chances of making her achieve an orgasm or two as you go along, it also helps you keep clear from inadvertently popping off during the action.

Although you may already know the erogenous zones that your partner likes to be stimulated and how she wants them to be pleasured, you can still “upgrade” you oral sex strategy with a few simple pointers.

Make sure you follow along to find out what these are and wow her all the more the next time you explore south of her border…

Oral Sex Upgrade #1: The misdirection technique

This pointer is as straightforward as it gets. When you go down on her, make it a point to deliberately lead her astray in terms of what erogenous zone you’re going to stimulate and how you’re going to do it.

For example you can say that you’re going to lick her clitoris, but you’re actually going to put your tongue inside her vagina instead. This catches her off-guard and she’ll become more excited in the process.

Moreover, you can use this technique when you’re stimulating the erogenous zones located in the upper part of your lover’s body as well.

Oral Sex Upgrade #2: The ABC and 123 technique

Instead of simply going at it down under with simple kisses, licks, caresses and fondling, keep in mind to pattern them using the alphabet and numbers. Besides covering a lot of area while stimulating your partner, you will also keep her on her toes while at it since she won’t know where you’ll go next.

You can either kick things off with your ABC’s or 123’s and vice versa. Imagine how that will really get her going between the sheets.

Oral Sex Upgrade #3: The teaser technique

I’m pretty sure that you want to get fast and furious as soon as you get the chance to orally pleasure her. But the thing is you can make her more excited and experience even more intense sensations when you do your stimulation teasingly.

You can pull this off by doing this really gently, enough to make her feel something, but not a lot to really give her the full experience in the process. Believe me, she’s really going to beg for more and enjoy the whole thing at the same time.