No matter how many dates you’ve already had, chances are you are still discovering new things as you go along.
And unlike what a lot of so-called “pickup artists” are suggesting, there is no surefire dating strategy as well as words and gestures that you can use to pull the whole thing off.
Come to think of it. Acting pompous to give a woman the notion that you’re the alpha male or perhaps dressing up in loud clothes will only repel her, not bring her closer to you.
However, I’ve learned during my extensive research into the female psychology a few key yet commonly overlooked mistakes that can significantly affect the outcome of a date.
So if you’re looking to ace that next date you’re going to have, make sure you follow along…
Don’t neglect your overall grooming.
Sure this may sound rather simplistic, but not keeping a close eye on your grooming is definitely going to have an effect on your date.
Apart from making her feel that you’re not a responsible man, she’s also going to have a surge of stress hormones in her body that will just increase her anxiety levels in the process – which will make her impatient and wish to be someplace else.
Don’t plan your dates all by yourself.
If you’re anything like most men, chances are you think that organizing a date is a task that you should take on alone.
However, you’ll have a much higher possibility of acing the whole thing if you let the woman you’re going out with in on the action like choosing the venue or perhaps the stuff that you’ll order while at it.
Besides having a preview of the things that she likes, you can also use them to dazzle her during your date.
Don’t order alcohol.
Now while a lot of guys mistakenly think that downing a portion or two of your favorite may help you steady your nerves during a date, it will actually do more harm than good.
See, alcohol can easily cloud your senses and make you act and talk funny. And you already know how that can be an issue during your date.
Don’t do all the talking.
Make it a point to always listen to your date intently when she’s opening up to you.
Apart from making her feel that you’re not that interested in her, she’s also going to have the notion that you’re bored – which will also encourage her to feel that way in the process.