If you’re anything like most men, I’m pretty sure that you’d like to have a go between the sheets with your lover as often as possible.
However, you’re simply noticing that she is not that eager to make love with you these days – and that’s even when you are already bringing your convincing A-game into play.
There’s no need to worry just yet though. This doesn’t mean that she’s finally mellowed down between the sheets like what some so-called “sex gurus” are saying.
Chances are you’re just overlooking the following factors that keep your partner from really getting in the mood for action in the bedroom…
If you’ve been following HowToLastLongInBed.com for a while, you probably already know that hygiene plays a key role when it comes to getting a woman going for sex as well as making her enjoy the whole thing as you go along.
Neglecting to keep your hygiene up to par not only affects the way you look and smell, but also lead to issues that can prevent her from getting the pleasurable she wants while you two are at it.
Just think about uncomfortable stubble and long fingernails getting in contact with her erogenous zones and you’ll get the idea.
I know this sounds a bit surprising to be included in this list, but keeping your bedroom as clean and organized as you can actually helps improve your chances of getting your lover in the mood to heat things up between the sheets.
See, women are very particular with cleanliness and organization. It helps their bodies churn out positive hormones like oxytocin and dopamine to set off the key changes to get ready for lovemaking.
However, when your lover thinks that your bedroom is dusty, chaotic and smelly, it will just promote the release of stress hormones that will only make her feel impatient, anxious and definitely not in the mood for sex.
Your sex techniques.
Say you’ve got this favorite snack and you decide to eat it every day. You’ll tend to lose interest in it sooner or later, right? What’s really interesting in this also applies to lovemaking.
If you always use the same techniques whenever you and your partner are at it between the sheets, there’s a very big possibility that her interest in sex is going to dwindle down before you know it.
Make sure you mix things up and learn new stuff you can use in the bedroom so she’ll really look forward to your next sex session.