Giving your lover a sex session that she won’t forget anytime soon is no doubt on your checklist when things get extra steamy between the sheets.
And one way to pull off just that is going down on your partner properly. But the thing is getting the job done isn’t just zeroing in on her clitoris and vagina and going full speed ahead as soon as you can.
Make sure you follow along to learn a few key mistakes that can ruin her oral sex experience when you explore south of her border…
You don’t warm her up enough.
As soon as the brain detects that things are already getting hot in the bedroom, it stimulates the endocrine glands to produce and release feel-good hormones that trigger key changes in your partner’s body.
Besides increasing your blood pressure and making you breathe faster, these hormones also direct a more than usual amount of blood flow to her pelvic region to get her wet and make her erogenous zones down there more sensitive.
The more of these feel-good hormones are churned out, the more pleasurable oral sex will be for your lover. So make it a point to really warm her up for oral sex before you explore south of her border.
You make a beeline for her clitoris.
Sure the clitoris may be filled with extra sensitive nerve endings that can give her a lot of pleasurable sensations when stimulated the right way, but giving it a lot of TLC as soon as you get the chance will only make her feel awkward or very uncomfortable.
Make it a point to tease her first by stimulating the areas around her clitoris like the inner thighs and mons pubis. And when she’s the one asking you to give her clitoris a go, that’s the perfect time to give it the attention it really needs.
You don’t vary your technique.
It really doesn’t matter if you already know the spots that she likes to be stimulated during oral sex or perhaps the way you do it, but if you keep on doing it again and again each you go down on her, she won’t enjoy it as much as you’d like her to.
Keep in mind to focus on different areas and use varying stimulation techniques when you give her oral sex. The more you keep your lover on her toes when you do it, the more enjoyable it will be for her.