If you are anything like most men, chances are you’ve got anal sex in your sexual bucket list. And now that you’ve finally convinced your lover to give it a go, what now?
There’s no need to worry just yet if you’re still not that seasoned when it comes to anal sex though. Make sure you follow along to learn a few key tips to give her a pleasurable experience while at it…
Give her encouraging words.
Sure the idea of finally getting a round of anal sex is really exciting for you, immediately getting to it when things get extra steamy between the sheets won’t lead to the results that you’re hoping for.
Keep in mind to start things off by encouraging your partner and making her as comfortable as you can. Besides helping boost the amount of positive hormones in her body, she will feel more relaxed in the process, which will make the experience smoother for the both of you.
Remember to be as sincere while at it, too, since the effect will be the opposite when she feels that you’re only trying to butter her up.
Have the right amount of lube on hand.
Unlike the vagina that is naturally wired to produce and release lubrication when it preps up for lovemaking, the anus doesn’t have this attribute.
This is why you’ll need lube (make it water-based as well if possible) to properly get the job done. And when it comes to the question how much lubrication you will need for anal sex, the answer would be a lot.
More is definitely the way to go when it comes to lube and anal sex.
Besides needing an ample amount to make things as smooth as possible when you’re already sexually penetrating in the anus, you will also need to reapply every few minutes or so to keep things slick and suave.
When you feel that the smoothness has reduced even a bit, put on more lubrication.
Go as slow and easy as you can.
Hold your horses!
I know the temptation of making a beeline for her anus and start getting the job done is much too high, but it’s not recommended if you want to make her like the whole thing.
Keep in mind to go slow and gentle in the process…unless she tells you herself that she’d like to take things up a notch.