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Take your oral sex sessions up a notch with these pointers...

Take your oral sex sessions up a notch with these pointers…

Giving your lover an awesome oral sex session doesn’t just help you take her pleasure levels off the charts, but also raise your chances of making her achieve orgasm in the process.

However, unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly think, pulling off the whole thing isn’t just about zeroing in on a woman’s clitoris, breasts and vagina and start getting fast and furious.

So if you’re looking to really give her an oral sex experience that she won’t forget anytime soon the next time you explore south of her border, make sure you follow along to find out more…

DO heat her up for lovemaking thoroughly.

Most men seem to think that oral sex is as straightforward as making a beeline for a woman’s sex organs as soon as they get the chance.

But the thing is this is perhaps one of the worst strategies that you can go for when you pleasure your partner with your mouth.

See, a woman’s erogenous zones, particularly her clitoris and breasts, won’t be able to churn out the feel good sensations that they are naturally wired to do when they’re stimulated right then and there.

Keep in mind to really warm your lover up for action with mental stimulation and other foreplay techniques before you start giving her oral TLC.

DO be gentle when pleasuring her orally.

Unlike what you see in porn movies, giving oral sex isn’t supposed to be fast and vigorous. It is supposed to be slow and gentle to make it pleasurable for your partner.

This is because speedy and forceful strokes tend to only lead to awkward and uncomfortable sensations that can even become painful sooner or later.

Make it a point to keep things as slow and easy as you can. Sure it’s tempting to pick up the pace, but remember that it’s her pleasure that you’re aiming for. And only take it up a notch when she tells you herself.

DO stimulate her other sexual hotspots.

A lot of men mistakenly think that oral sex is only limited to stimulating a woman’s erogenous zones with their mouths, tongues and lips.

Keep in mind to pleasure her other erogenous zones using your fingers while you’re at it, too. Be very imaginative and creative on how you’ll execute the whole thing.

You can also move from one erogenous zone to another just to keep on her toes as you go along.

So you're looking to make anal sex more pleasurable for her...

So you’re looking to make anal sex more pleasurable for her…

If you are anything like most men, chances are you’ve got anal sex in your sexual bucket list. And now that you’ve finally convinced your lover to give it a go, what now?

There’s no need to worry just yet if you’re still not that seasoned when it comes to anal sex though. Make sure you follow along to learn a few key tips to give her a pleasurable experience while at it…

Give her encouraging words.

Sure the idea of finally getting a round of anal sex is really exciting for you, immediately getting to it when things get extra steamy between the sheets won’t lead to the results that you’re hoping for.

Keep in mind to start things off by encouraging your partner and making her as comfortable as you can. Besides helping boost the amount of positive hormones in her body, she will feel more relaxed in the process, which will make the experience smoother for the both of you.

Remember to be as sincere while at it, too, since the effect will be the opposite when she feels that you’re only trying to butter her up.

Have the right amount of lube on hand.

Unlike the vagina that is naturally wired to produce and release lubrication when it preps up for lovemaking, the anus doesn’t have this attribute.

This is why you’ll need lube (make it water-based as well if possible) to properly get the job done. And when it comes to the question how much lubrication you will need for anal sex, the answer would be a lot.

More is definitely the way to go when it comes to lube and anal sex.

Besides needing an ample amount to make things as smooth as possible when you’re already sexually penetrating in the anus, you will also need to reapply every few minutes or so to keep things slick and suave.

When you feel that the smoothness has reduced even a bit, put on more lubrication.

Go as slow and easy as you can.

Hold your horses!

I know the temptation of making a beeline for her anus and start getting the job done is much too high, but it’s not recommended if you want to make her like the whole thing.

Keep in mind to go slow and gentle in the process…unless she tells you herself that she’d like to take things up a notch.

These seemingly innocent mistakes can lead to erectile issues...

These seemingly innocent mistakes can lead to erectile issues…

Keeping your erections strong and stable is definitely one of the top items in your sexual checklist.

Sure you may be exercising in a regular basis and making sure that you’re only loading up on the right stuff, but there is still a possibility that you’re making a seemingly innocent mistake or two that can put you at risk of erectile problems sooner or later.

Make sure you follow along to find out more…

You wear skinny jeans.

Now while I’ve emphasized the importance of looking and smelling good when it comes to boosting your chances at dating and encouraging your partner to make love with you more often, going for the wrong fashion choices can lead to issues rising up to the occasion sooner or later.

See, getting rock hard when you and your lover are already at it between the sheets basically involves directing ideal blood flow to the erectile tissues in the penis to firm them up. Unless these tissues get the right amount of blood they need, it’s either you’re going to have a weak erection or not get hard at all.

Skinny jeans simply constrict the blood channels that circulate blood in and around the body. This forceful squeezing also raises your risk of getting testicular torsion as well. And I’m sure you already know by now what happens to your ability to get rock hard if you keep on wearing them.

You spend too much time sitting.

During sexual arousal, the brain stimulates the endocrine glands to produce and release positive hormones like oxytocin and dopamine to prep you up for lovemaking.

Aside from picking up your heart and breathing rates, these hormones also intensify your circulation to the pelvic region to send a significant amount of blood to the erectile tissues in the penis to get you rock hard.

But the thing is this process gets disrupted when you sit for too long. Your blood vessels basically lose their power in terms of transporting blood from one place to another when you stay stationary for very long periods.

Make it a point to balance out your being idle and active and you’re on the right track.

You don’t drink lots of water.

Water basically keeps the blood channels like blood vessels, veins and arteries supple and elastic. Unless they keep this attribute, chances are they won’t function like they should. And your erections are going to be affected sooner than you’d like to think.

Keep in mind to have at least 6 to 8 glasses of water every day and you’ll be alright.

Keep clear from these commonly overlooked dating mistakes!

Keep clear from these commonly overlooked dating mistakes!

When it comes to first dates, acing the whole thing is no doubt the most important goal of all.

Sure you may already have an idea of how to keep your grooming up to par or knowing which place to take a woman to really wow her, but convincing her to go a second date with you is much more than that.

So if you’re looking to ace your first date and make her say yes to a second one, here are a few commonly overlooked dating mistakes that you should keep clear of…

You don’t include her when planning your date.

A lot of men mistakenly think that organizing a first date is solely their responsibility. Getting the woman you’re going out with involved when it comes to planning the whole thing is a very smart move.

Keeping in mind to call or text her and ask her opinion where to go, what food to order or perhaps what drink she prefers should be on your checklist.

Besides making a woman feel that you’re really into her, getting her opinion about this and that about your date also gives you an idea of the stuff she likes, which will definitely help you dazzle her as you go along.

You talk about technical stuff.

Some guys believe that talking about complicated things during a first date will help them impress a woman. But the thing is it will only lead to the opposite because she will just think that you’re trying too hard.

(Hogging the discussion also results to the same.)

And your date won’t turn out as you expected when she clams up. Besides making her feel bored and anxious, the negative hormones that will be released during the same will bring on more unpleasant effects sooner than you think.

Keep in mind to only talk about trivial things like her favorite book, the name of her first pet or perhaps what her favorite ice cream flavor is. I know these topics may not sound as impressive, but they will definitely get the job done.

You get romantic right on the get go.

See, women see first dates as opportunities for them to make friends and expand their social network.

Getting into a romantic mood the first time you go out with a woman won’t just make her feel awkward, but also give her the notion that you’re creepy. And when that happens, you probably already know how you’ll fare when you ask her out again.