Getting a woman ready for action between the sheets is totally different compared to how we prep up for lovemaking.
We tend to get turned on as soon as we get an eyeful of our lover’s sexy bits. However, she needs more than that to get going in the bedroom.
Your lover needs to be eased into the whole thing or else she won’t enjoy sex fully even if you’re already bringing your A-game into play.
And chances are you’re also probably making a few mistakes that can prevent her from really getting sexually aroused these days.
Make sure you read on to find out what these are…
You don’t give your bedroom the cleaning and organizing it deserves.
So here’s the situation…
A woman gets sexually aroused when her brain stimulates her endocrine glands to produce and release positive hormones.
However, this process gets disrupted if stress hormones get in the picture. And one of the surefire situations that can easily encourage the release of these hormones?
Seeing dirt and disorder. Like dusty windows, trash on the floor and dirty clothes that are not in the hamper. You can add smelling bad odors in the mix, too.
So if you’re looking to really get her in the mood for sex, make it a point to clean and organize your bedroom.
You already rush her into it.
Like what I’ve emphasized in an earlier post, a woman gets sexually aroused in stages. It doesn’t just happen in an instant like in our case.
Sure you may already know the erogenous zones that she likes to be stimulated, but they won’t immediately feel good when you start stimulating them. There’s even a chance that she will feel awkward or uncomfortable when you get busy with them.
Always remember to keep the action slow and easy. Believe me you’ll make her feel more satisfied this way.
You don’t ask her what she is hot for in bed.
Come to think of it. Who would know what your lover really wanted in the bedroom if not her, right?
Make sure you ask her which erogenous zones should be pleasured and how to do the same. Don’t just rely on the stuff you already know. Ask her because her preferences tend to change regularly.
Remember to ask her what she likes to have a clue of her preferences and build your strategy from there.