June 2015 Archives

So you're always getting stuck in the friendzone...

So you’re always getting stuck in the friendzone…

Getting stuck in the friendzone is definitely one of the most awkward experiences that you’ll ever go through.

However, unlike what most men tend to mistakenly believe, falling in the friendzone trap doesn’t just happen.

It is actually the result of the choices that you made as well as the decisions that you went for as you’re building a relationship with a woman.

And what’s really interesting is there are key reasons why a lot of men tend to get themselves stuck in the friendzone. Make sure follow along to find out what these are…

Friendzone Factor #1: You are too nice.

Now while I am not saying that being nice is an attribute that you should check off your checklist when it comes to building a romantic relationship with a woman, being too nice is just going to be a disaster sooner or later.

Aside from making a woman feel that she can easily manipulate you (just imagine how that will turn out), she will also get the notion that you’re not that exciting to be her love interest.

Make it a point to turn down the nice factor down a notch and you’re good to go. Be the boy next door, but not the doormat.

Friendzone Factor #2: You are too available for her.

Say a woman you like sends you a text message at 2 in the morning asking for a ride to some place or a bite of her favorite pizza, what would you do?

Now while doing this once or twice is perfectly fine, you’re definitely on your way to being friendzoned if you make it a habit.

You’re just unconsciously telling her that you’re a chump when you do this. And women don’t like chumps.

Friendzone Factor #3: You don’t express your real intentions.

Letting a woman know that you’re looking to have a romantic relationship with her is a priority if you want to do just that.

Come to think of it. How does she know that you want to be closer with her in a more romantic way if you don’t tell her in the first place?

You can tell her this using a simple text message, a card with flowers or some other nice gesture that you usually do. You can even tell her while you’re doing something that you two like.

Just keep in mind to do it sweet and simple. Complicating things will only result to the opposite.

Keep clear from these mistakes when you want to score a second date...

Keep clear from these mistakes when you want to score a second date…

Acing a date is absolutely the most important goal that you’re aiming for when you go out with a woman.

However, unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly think, doing this isn’t about luck or perhaps going for the fanciest place in town.

There are actually dating mistakes that you should avoid to really pull the whole thing off, which can bring your chances of scoring a second date down to nil.

Make sure you read on to find out what these are to boost your chances of getting that second date…

Don’t look like you just got out of bed.

I know this sounds rather simplistic right now, but showing up on a date looking and smelling good is a priority.

It basically encourages a woman’s body to release more feel-good hormones that set off positive changes in her. Besides making your date feel less anxious around you, it also makes her more sociable in the process.

While we’re on the subject, keep in mind that being simple is the way to go. Stay clear from apparel with loud colors and ridiculous prints. You will only end up looking weird and creepy to your date.

Don’t talk too much about yourself.

Now while giving a woman an idea of who you are and what your interests are like during a date should be on your checklist, spending too much time talking about yourself already ruins the whole thing.

Make it a point to initiate a meaningful discussion between the two of you. I know this may a bit tricky right now, but you can start one by sharing something about you and asking her a similar question.

Just remember to go for trivial and simple stuff to keep things going. Stay clear from sensitive topics like politics and similar subjects and you’re good to go.

This is because she’ll have the notion that she’s in a job interview instead of a date.

Never bring up your past dates.

Gossiping is always a no-no, especially when you’re on a date with a woman.

When you dish out the things that happened on your previous dates with her, she’ll have the notion that you will do the same thing – only with her on it – on your next date.

And that’s definitely going to blow your chances of making her say yes to a second date. So no matter how funny your dating anecdote is, keep it to yourself.

So she's not getting as hot for sex like she used to nowadays...

So she’s not getting as hot for sex like she used to nowadays…

Getting a woman ready for action between the sheets is totally different compared to how we prep up for lovemaking.

We tend to get turned on as soon as we get an eyeful of our lover’s sexy bits. However, she needs more than that to get going in the bedroom.

Your lover needs to be eased into the whole thing or else she won’t enjoy sex fully even if you’re already bringing your A-game into play.

And chances are you’re also probably making a few mistakes that can prevent her from really getting sexually aroused these days.

Make sure you read on to find out what these are…

You don’t give your bedroom the cleaning and organizing it deserves.

So here’s the situation…

A woman gets sexually aroused when her brain stimulates her endocrine glands to produce and release positive hormones.

However, this process gets disrupted if stress hormones get in the picture. And one of the surefire situations that can easily encourage the release of these hormones?

Seeing dirt and disorder. Like dusty windows, trash on the floor and dirty clothes that are not in the hamper. You can add smelling bad odors in the mix, too.

So if you’re looking to really get her in the mood for sex, make it a point to clean and organize your bedroom.

You already rush her into it.

Like what I’ve emphasized in an earlier post, a woman gets sexually aroused in stages.  It doesn’t just happen in an instant like in our case.

Sure you may already know the erogenous zones that she likes to be stimulated, but they won’t immediately feel good when you start stimulating them. There’s even a chance that she will feel awkward or uncomfortable when you get busy with them.

Always remember to keep the action slow and easy. Believe me you’ll make her feel more satisfied this way.

You don’t ask her what she is hot for in bed.

Come to think of it. Who would know what your lover really wanted in the bedroom if not her, right?

Make sure you ask her which erogenous zones should be pleasured and how to do the same. Don’t just rely on the stuff you already know. Ask her because her preferences tend to change regularly.

Remember to ask her what she likes to have a clue of her preferences and build your strategy from there.

Looking to knock her socks off during clitoral stimulation? Check this out!

Looking to knock her socks off during clitoral stimulation? Check this out!

Giving your lover’s clitoris the right attention it deserves during foreplay is definitely one of the things that you’ve got up your sleeve when things get extra steamy in the bedroom.

However, pleasuring her clitoris isn’t just about zeroing in on this really sensitive erogenous zone and start getting busy.

There’s even a chance that you’ll ruin the whole thing when you do it this way, too.

So if you’re looking to learn a few key clitoral stimulation techniques that will really knock her socks off, make sure you follow along to learn a few key tips that will help you pull off just that…

Must-Do Clitoral Stimulation Technique #1: The Teasing Lick

The clitoris doesn’t produce pleasurable sensations as soon as you begin stimulating it. It needs time to prep up properly or else she’ll feel uncomfortable in the process, even if you’re already bringing your A-game into play.

When the action’s getting hot between the sheets, make it a point to tease her clitoris with slow and very gentle licks. Sure this may sound like not pleasurable at all, but you’ll be surprised how much she’s going to enjoy this.

Just keep at it until she asks you to take the whole thing up a notch.

Must-Do Clitoral Stimulation Technique #2: Nibble and Suck.

Interestingly, the clitoris is packed with more sensitive nerve endings than the penis and vagina combined. It can easily churn out pleasurable sensations if properly prepped up during foreplay.

During my extensive research into the female sexuality, I learned that nibbling and sucking the clitoris helps it extend fully and produce electrifying sensations. You can see if it’s already fully extended because the hood is very much visible when this happens.

And they can lead to mind-blowing orgasms if you continue to play your cards right in the process.

Must-Do Clitoral Stimulation Technique #3: Intermittent Pressure Levels.

Now that you’ve got her going, keep in mind to change the pressure that you’re applying on your lover’s clitoris as you go along.

Switch it up from light to heavy one minute and mix it up the next. The possibilities are just endless with this technique. And your lover will be on her toes while at it because she won’t have an idea what’s going to happen next.

Make sure you stimulate her other erogenous zones in the process as well to really take her pleasure levels off the charts.