Unlike guys that can get ready for action between the sheets at the drop of a hat, women need a bit of time to start up the action in the bedroom.
And if you’re noticing that your lover is taking longer than usual to get her sexual arousal going when you’re trying to heat things up in bed, here are a few simple pointers that you should keep in mind…
Give your bedroom a meticulous cleaning and organizing.
I know this sounds rather surprising right now, but making sure that your bedroom in clean and organized is one way of really getting your partner in the mood for sex.
This is because women are really sticklers for it. And if your lover thinks that your bedroom looks more like a dump than a place for sexy time, chances are it will be tricky to get her sexually aroused.
I don’t mean to say that you should totally overhaul your cleaning and organizing habits to achieve this. Simply making it a habit to keep things clean and in order is enough to get you on the right track.
Tease her slow and easy.
Women prefer to start up the action slow and easy. Sure this may sound rather boring, but you’ll be surprised with the results when you work your magic on her like a slow burn. And what’s really interesting is the slower you go, the more sexually aroused she will be.
Stimulate her mind.
If you’re anything like most men, you probably think that physical stimulation is the best strategy to go for when it comes to getting a woman ready for lovemaking.
However, getting her excited mentally is also a priority. Since the brain is the one in charge of promoting the production and release of feel-good hormones that make your partner feel hot to trot, warming her up with mental stimulation is sure to make this process easier for her.
Apart from sending her kinky text messages that describe the stuff you have in your bedroom checklist, forwarding naughty emails and similar stuff will also do the trick.
Let her call the shots.
A lot of guys mistakenly think that they already know what their lovers want to experience in bed.
If you want to really pick up the pace on her sexual arousal, let her decide what will take place during the action. It will also boost her chances of reaching the Big O as well.