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So she's not enjoying your clitoral stimulation anymore...

So she’s not enjoying your clitoral stimulation anymore…

So let’s get right down to business straight away…

You are simply noticing that your lover is not that receptive to your moves when you pleasure her clitoris these days.

And that’s even when you’re already bringing your best oral sex techniques into play.

There’s no need to worry just yet though. I’m going to share a few key mistakes that a lot of guys seem to overlook when they’re going down on their lovers.

Expect some pretty explosive results when you keep the following in mind on your next oral sex session…

Ease into her clitoris.

Slow and easy is the best way to go when you’re looking to really give your lover an awesome time when you stimulate her clitoris.

I’m pretty sure your idea of pulling the whole thing off is going at it fast and furious, but it will just make her feel awkward and uncomfortable.

There’s even a chance that your partner will find the stimulation you do rather painful, which is definitely going to ruin her chances of achieving orgasm sooner or later.

Don’t go straight to the middle.

The clitoris needs a bit of time to prep up to really produce the pleasurable sensations it is designed to give when stimulated.

Keep in mind not to make a beeline to the clitoris itself when you’re working your magic on it. Start things off by gently pleasuring the sides.

And when you feel that her clitoris has become more rigid to the touch, it’s ready for action. (She’s also going to moan louder and her gyrations will become more intense in case you need more clues.)

You only focus on her clitoris.

I know this sounds rather surprising, but concentrating only on her clitoris when you explore south of her border is going to make the experience flat.

See, women are easily bored – even if it’s their clitoris that’s being stimulated.

Make it a point to include your lover’s other erogenous zones in the mix like her breasts, inner thighs, back of the neck and sides of the stomach.

The overload of pleasurable sensations is simply going to make her reach the Big O faster.

Keep at it.

A lot of men make the mistake of just stopping in the middle of the action.

They say their necks get tired or perhaps some other reason that makes them stop the clitoral stimulation while at it.

Just remember to keep the action going and you’re on your way to really pleasuring her clitoris.

Do you feel that you're just coming too soon these days?

Do you feel that you’re just coming too soon these days?

If you’re anything like most men, lasting for as long as you can when things are getting steamy between the sheets is the top priority in your checklist.

However, you seem to be going off too soon when you and your lover are at it in the bedroom these days.

There’s no need to worry just yet though. Or perhaps get your hands on pills, creams and other artificial stuff that claim to prevent premature ejaculation.

Chances are you’re simply making the following mistakes that make you come too soon…

You’re not managing stress properly.

Although going through stress is pretty much a normal thing in life, experiencing lots and lots of it at once is just going to lead in disaster. That includes your ability to last long in bed.

This is because too much stress leads to the release of cortisol and similar negative hormones that will disrupt your body’s normal sexual arousal process.

Apart from preventing you from really lasting long during lovemaking, these negative hormones can make getting rock hard on demand quite tricky as well.

You think that you’re going to come too soon.

Sure this may sound simplistic, but the body greatly depends on its mental aspect to carry out physical activities.

When you think of something, the brain basically transforms this idea into a feeling. This feeling sets off changes in the body that affect how it functions almost immediately.

The moment that you think that you’re going to be prone to a bout of premature ejaculation when you and your lover are at it, it’s already begun.

And you’ll just find yourself popping off unexpectedly during the action.

You go too fast.

Your body’s orgasmic and ejaculatory responses kick in when the brain thinks that you’ve already experienced the right amount of pleasurable sensations during sex.

The faster you go during the action, the sooner you’re going to activate these responses.

Now while the temptation to immediately go fast and furious is simply unbearable when you’re already in action between the sheets, make it a point to tone things down to avoid premature ejaculation.

(Here are a few oral sex techniques you can bring into play to pull this one off easier.)

You don’t focus on her pleasure.

As I’ve emphasized earlier, the more sensations you experience, the faster you’re going to come during sex.

You are much prone to this when you don’t focus on your lover’s sexual satisfaction more.

These dating mistakes are sure to repel a woman in no time...

These dating mistakes are sure to repel a woman in no time…

Chances are you’d like to make a date as awesome as you can for a woman when you’re out on one.

And there is a lot of “advice” from so-called “dating gurus” out there that recommend wearing loud clothes and acting like you don’t care to really pull it off.

But the thing is that the stuff they’re dishing out are just going to lead to disaster sooner or later.

Seriously, wearing kooky clothes and making her feel that she’s utterly disposable? They’re basically dating red flags right off the bat.

Looking to really ace your next date with a woman you’ve got your eye on? Here are a few mistakes that you should steer clear of to really make the experience amazing for her…

Dating Mistake #1: You only plan your date on the day itself.

Planning is key when it comes to making a date awesome.

And the outcome won’t be anywhere near this when you just plan the details of your date on the day itself.

Make it a point to take care of the details of the big day (or night) at least three days to a week before the whole thing happens.

Apart from picking a nice venue that she’ll feel cozy in, keep in mind to have an idea of the food and drinks she prefers to really make her feel special during your date.

Dating Mistake #2: You don’t plan your outfit well.

Unlike what most guys mistakenly think, picking an outfit for a date isn’t just about what looks good on you.

You also have to go for clothes and shoes that you’re comfortable in.

This is because your comfort can significantly affect your mood and behavior during a date. If you’re feeling good, you tend to behave properly.

And if you feel that your shirt is too tight or perhaps your shoes hurt the soles of your feet, you already have an idea how your date will turn out.

Dating Mistake #3: You badmouth your previous dates.

You can think of this as something that can be considered as a form of gossiping with your date.

And chances are she won’t appreciate it when you tell her about the (negative) details of the last time you went out with a woman.

Your date is also going to be really defensive because she will have the notion that she’ll possibly be your next topic if the date you two are having won’t turn out to be good.

(Talking about commitment is a no-no, too.)

You’re definitely going to kick your smoking habit when you check this out…

So let’s get straight down to business…

You are simply noticing that you’re not getting as hard as usual when you get sexually aroused. And it’s already making you feel really anxious when things get hot in bed.

I understand what you’re going through and I’d just like to emphasize that there’s no need to get your hands on artificial stuff that claim to fix this problem.

Chances are you’re just overlooking to include the following key pointers in your lifestyle that will surely bring back your erections to their former glory:

You’re not masturbating regularly.

I know this sounds surprising, but making it a point to masturbate in a regular basis helps your body to maintain its ability to get a strong erection going during sexual arousal.

This is because you’re basically conditioning your brain to be always prepared for action between the sheets.

Interestingly, masturbation essentially involves all the physiological processes that your body goes through during lovemaking, but you’re just going at it solo.

And come to think of it. Masturbation is one very pleasurable thing to do, too.

You’re not loading up on the healthy stuff.

Now while there’s nothing wrong with indulging in your favorite comfort food from time to time, not having a lot of fruits and vegetables in your diet is going to affect your overall circulation.

Having enough blood flow in your pelvic region during sexual arousal is an essential to achieve a strong erection.

If those erectile tissues in the penis won’t have their ideal amounts of blood to firm it up, there’s a very big possibility that you’re either going to have a weak erection or perhaps not get hard at all.

Your alcohol consumption is too much.

Although having a serving or two of your favorite brew can actually help improve your circulation, drinking like a fish will just lead to the opposite.

And what’s even more terrible is the part of the brain that’s responsible for sexual pleasure gets numbed out when there’s excessive levels of alcohol in the blood.

(Smoking is out of the question, too. You have to kick the habit as soon as you can.)

You’re not exercising regularly.

Exercising vigorously for at least 15 minutes daily helps maintain optimum circulation.

And this means you won’t be prone to problems directing blood flow where it’s really needed, like, say, when you’re looking to get some action going between the sheets.

You can start things off with low-impact exercises like slow jogging or biking.