I’m really disappointed at what these self-proclaimed “dating experts” are saying these days.
Besides recommending that wearing loud clothes is a must during a first date to really get a woman’s attention, they’re also suggesting that you ignore her most of the time to assert that you’re an alpha male.
And that’s their idea of a surefire first date.
The only thing that’s “surefire” about these techniques when you use them during a first date is definitely not getting a second one.
Now let me share a few simple yet effective pointers that will help you boost your chances of convincing a woman you’re out with the first time to go on a second date with you…
Keep your grooming in check.
I know you can find this one in almost every list of helpful dating tips you come across online, but grooming should be your top priority when it comes to acing a first date.
See, when a woman thinks you look and smell nice, she will feel more comfortable being with you.
Don’t hide your smile.
Smiling is one of the simplest ways to establish a connection with a woman during a first date.
Besides making you look friendlier and more sociable, it will also stimulate her brain to release feel-good hormones that will make her more outgoing.
Just remember to keep those smiles genuine though.
Keep your movements smooth.
Body language plays a key role when it comes to making a good impression on a first date.
Don’t stiff up and act like you’re coming down with something while at it.
Or else you’ll just end up making the woman you’re out with feel uncomfortable, anxious and rather impatient for your first date to end.
And that’s definitely going to affect your chances of scoring a second one.
Listen to her intently.
Make it a point to be a good listener when your date is opening up to you.
Sure there may be stuff that you won’t find as interesting as the others, but you’re sure to get a lot of material that will help you impress her even more as you go along with your date.
(You’ll be surprised how much she will appreciate it when you remember the name of her first pet or favorite movie.)
Mimic her posture.
Sure this sounds silly, but following your date’s movements, postures and mannerisms makes her feel closer to you.
Just do it subtly though or else she’ll think you’re being silly.