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Here are a few techniques that will knock her socks off when you stimulate her clitoris...

Here are a few techniques that will knock her socks off when you stimulate her clitoris…

Working your magic on your lover’s clitoris isn’t just about going straight to it as soon as you get the chance during foreplay or lovemaking.

Now while doing it properly can lead to her sexual pleasure levels going off the charts and lots of orgasms along the way, not pulling it off the right way will just lead to the opposite.

Apart from making her feel rather awkward and uncomfortable, you won’t be able to make her reach the Big O no matter what you do while at it.

Let me give you a few key techniques that will help boost your chances of really giving her a clitoral stimulation session that she won’t forget anytime soon…

Tease her until she couldn’t stand it anymore.

A lot of men make the mistake of immediately zeroing in on the clitoris when they go down on their lovers.

This somewhat “shocks” the clitoris because it needs a bit of time to prep up for action and won’t give the ideal amounts of pleasure it can really produce.

Instead, pleasure the spots around the clitoris.

Besides building up her sexual arousal, you will also give her a preview of the exciting sensations that she’ll experience when you get to the main attraction.

If you do it right, it will only be a short time until she’s going to direct you to her clitoris herself.

Say your A-B-C’s.

You have to make your stimulation interesting all the way if you’re really looking to wow your lover while you’re working your magic on her clitoris.

One technique you can do is stimulating her clitoris using the alphabet. You simply have to flick and move your tongue in the shape of letters. You can even spell out your favorite words to spice things up during the action.

You can use numbers while you’re at it as well if you want to take it to a whole new level.

Use your fingers appropriately.

When it comes to clitoral stimulation, it’s not exclusive only to the clitoris. You also need to pleasure your lover’s other erogenous zones to really electrify her senses.

And since your mouth, lips and tongue are already busy, you need to use her fingers.

Make it a point to pleasure her breasts, inner thighs, sides of the stomach and other spots that make her feel good between the sheets. You’ll be simply surprised with the explosive results.

So she's still not saying yes to anal sex...

So she’s still not saying yes to anal sex…

I know you’ve been fantasizing for a long time now about having anal sex with your lover, but you just can’t seem to convince her to give it a go no matter how hard you try.

This doesn’t mean that you won’t ever experience having backdoor action with your partner though. Odds are you’re simply making a few mistakes that are keeping her from saying yes to anal sex.

Make sure you read on to find out what these possible mistakes are and boost your chances of convincing your lover to finally give the green light when it comes to anal sex…

You’re not talking to her about it properly.

I’ve learned during my extensive research into the female sexuality that women tend to brush off sexual stuff that are unusual to them. And this includes anal sex.

Unless you don’t make it a point to discuss anal sex properly with your lover, chances are she won’t be that eager to try it anytime soon.

One thing to remember though: don’t talk to your partner about it when you’re already getting frisky in bed because it will just ruin her mood for sex almost immediately.

You’re too bossy.

Now while being moderately assertive in the bedroom can be a good thing for women, overdoing it – especially when you’re trying to convince your partner to try anal sex – will simply lead to disaster.

Instead of working her up to become more adventurous during lovemaking, your partner will just become anxious, tense and impatient while at it.

And do you think she’ll be excited to try anal sex when this happens?

Just keep in mind to be really patient with her on the subject and you’ll soon make her say yes.

You’re not keeping your bedroom clean and organized.

If you’ve been following my posts on HowToLastLongInBed.com for a while now, you probably already know that having a clean and organized bedroom is a must if you’re looking to really get a woman sexually aroused.

This also applies to anal sex, so keep your bedroom spic and span or else things won’t be favorable for you.

You’re not preparing for it as you should.

If you’re looking to get your lover to say yes to anal sex, keep in mind to prep up like you should.

Besides keeping your bedroom as clean and organized as you can, getting your hands on a lot of water-based lubricant is a priority as well.

Here are a few reasons why your erections are not that strong nowadays...

Here are a few reasons why your erections are not that strong nowadays…

So let’s get straight to the bottom line right away…

You’re noticing that your erections are not that strong and stable nowadays when you and your lover are getting things hot between the sheets.

And the thing is you’ve never experienced this problem before.

However, there’s no need to worry just yet – or get your hands on artificial stuff like creams and pills.

Here are a few reasons why your ability to get rock hard is dipping these days…

You are overweight.

Apart from becoming rather vulnerable to chronic heart disease, stroke, diabetes and a host of other health problems, packing on extra pounds will also result to erectile dysfunction the least you expect it.

This is because your overall circulation will be significantly affected when you are overweight. Blood takes a longer time to reach the pelvic region all the way down to the erectile tissues in the penis.

And when this happens, you’ll find your erection getting softer and mellower. There’s even a chance that you won’t get hard at all, too.

You smoke too much.

It’s not just nicotine that gets inside your body each time you light up a cigarette.

You are also introducing lots and lots of dangerous chemicals that can wreak havoc in your system. Besides preventing your heart and lungs from optimally functioning, these chemicals can also cause the hardening of blood vessels, veins and arteries.

And if these blood channels are not working smoothly, the amount of blood getting to the erectile tissues in the penis will be significantly reduced.

You drink like a fish.

Sure I’ve emphasized in a previous post that having a drink or two of your favorite brew can promote better circulation in the body, but overdoing the whole thing can lead to the exact opposite.

Aside from numbing out a part of your brain that is in charge of sexual arousal, having high alcohol levels in the system can also make your performance in the bedroom rather unpredictable.

It’s either you won’t be able to rise up to the occasion or perhaps you’ll go off sooner than you’d like to.

You don’t exercise regularly.

I don’t mean becoming a hardcore fitness buff is a must if you’d like your erections to be as strong as usual.

You simply have to set aside at least 30 minutes of your day sweating it out. Besides slow jogging and brisk walking, you can also ride your bike while at it.

So she's taking longer to warm up for lovemaking nowadays...

So she’s taking longer to warm up for lovemaking nowadays…

Getting a woman completely ready for lovemaking is a priority if you’re really looking to give her the sexual satisfaction she wants in the bedroom.

Aside from being significantly longer to pull off compared to guys, prepping up a woman for action between the sheets also needs more than just physical stimulation.

However, you’re simply noticing that your partner is taking much longer to get sexually aroused these days. And that’s even when you’re already bringing your best bedroom techniques in play.

There’s no need to worry just yet though. Here are a few possible reasons why your lover isn’t warming up in bed as fast as she used to…

She isn’t getting enough sleep.

I know this sounds rather surprising, but your partner will find it very tricky to get ready for lovemaking if she’s constantly missing out on the right amount of shuteye.

This is because her body will not produce the ideal levels of feel-good hormones that are needed to spark up her interest for a sex session.

Make it a point to remind your lover to have 7 to 8 hours of sleep daily and she’ll be on the right track.

She is overloaded with stress.

Let me get this straight…

Not eliminating stress properly doesn’t just make your partner prone to health issues in the long run. It’s also going to take a toll on her ability to get ready for sex sooner or later.

(Excessive stress can also hurt your performance in bed.)

See, stress basically prevents the body from churning out dopamine, serotonin and oxytocin, the key hormones that set off a woman’s sexual arousal when it accumulates for a very long period of time.

It’s either she won’t really enjoy lovemaking or won’t get ready for sex at all when this happens.

You’re doing the same stuff over and over.

Now while this may sound surprising, the brain is naturally wired to “record” the moves you’re doing during sex.

This is to sort out the sensations that are pleasurable for your lover and those that aren’t. And if you’re doing the same techniques every time you’re at it in bed, chances are her brain will reduce the good sensations that she’ll experience during sex.

You can think of it as somewhat getting immune to the moves you’re doing, even if they’re her favorites.

Keep in mind to mix things up from time to time and you’ll be surprised with how fast your lover will be ready for action in the bedroom.