I know you’ve been fantasizing for a long time now about having anal sex with your lover, but you just can’t seem to convince her to give it a go no matter how hard you try.
This doesn’t mean that you won’t ever experience having backdoor action with your partner though. Odds are you’re simply making a few mistakes that are keeping her from saying yes to anal sex.
Make sure you read on to find out what these possible mistakes are and boost your chances of convincing your lover to finally give the green light when it comes to anal sex…
You’re not talking to her about it properly.
I’ve learned during my extensive research into the female sexuality that women tend to brush off sexual stuff that are unusual to them. And this includes anal sex.
Unless you don’t make it a point to discuss anal sex properly with your lover, chances are she won’t be that eager to try it anytime soon.
One thing to remember though: don’t talk to your partner about it when you’re already getting frisky in bed because it will just ruin her mood for sex almost immediately.
You’re too bossy.
Now while being moderately assertive in the bedroom can be a good thing for women, overdoing it – especially when you’re trying to convince your partner to try anal sex – will simply lead to disaster.
Instead of working her up to become more adventurous during lovemaking, your partner will just become anxious, tense and impatient while at it.
And do you think she’ll be excited to try anal sex when this happens?
Just keep in mind to be really patient with her on the subject and you’ll soon make her say yes.
You’re not keeping your bedroom clean and organized.
If you’ve been following my posts on HowToLastLongInBed.com for a while now, you probably already know that having a clean and organized bedroom is a must if you’re looking to really get a woman sexually aroused.
This also applies to anal sex, so keep your bedroom spic and span or else things won’t be favorable for you.
You’re not preparing for it as you should.
If you’re looking to get your lover to say yes to anal sex, keep in mind to prep up like you should.
Besides keeping your bedroom as clean and organized as you can, getting your hands on a lot of water-based lubricant is a priority as well.