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So she's not giving you blowjobs these days...

So she’s not giving you blowjobs these days…

If you’re a guy, getting head from your lover when things get extra steamy between the sheets is absolutely one of the highlights you’re always waiting for.

However, there is just one problem that you’re experiencing these days: your partner seems to have lost her interest in oral sex.

There’s no need to feel alarmed or worry just yet though.

Perhaps you’re simply making the following mistakes that can ruin your lover’s mood when it comes to giving you some oral attention…

You don’t give her oral sex yourself.

First things first.

Oral sex is basically a two-way street. You have to give it (and you’d have to make it an awesome experience each and every time as well) to receive it.

If you notice that your lover isn’t that eager to go down on you these days, there is a big possibility that you’re not giving her adequate oral TLC yourself. Sloppy ones don’t count, too.

When you give your lover the notion that she’ll have an experience she won’t forget anytime soon each time you explore south of her border, you’ll be surprised how much effort she will put in when it’s her turn to go down under.

You boss her to do it.

During my extensive research into the female psychology, I’ve learned that being overly forceful in bed can stimulate a woman’s brain to release a lot of stress hormones.

Sure some women have a penchant for being shown initiative when it comes to lovemaking, but overdoing the whole thing is already going to be an issue.

Now back to the stress hormones I was telling you about…

When they get loose, your lover will feel annoyed, impatient and uncooperative in the bedroom. Just imagine what will ensue when this happens.

Your hygiene down there needs improvement.

Come to think of it. Hygiene is a very big deal for women.

Interestingly, not keeping a close eye on your hygiene can also keep your lover from giving you a blowjob.

And if your hygiene down there doesn’t quite cut it for your lover, it’s safe to say that she won’t be going anywhere near your genitals no matter how much sweet-talking you’ll do.

Keep in mind to trim the shrubbery in a regular basis and don’t crimp on the soap when you’re lathering your genital area while showering. The cleaner you are, the higher the chances that she won’t hesitate to get the oral action going.

You're sure going to "choke the chicken" more often after checking this out...

You’re sure going to “choke the chicken” more often after checking this out…

Chances are you’re no stranger to masturbation if you’re reading this.

Although solo sex is almost always getting a bad rap from a lot of people, it is actually very beneficial for you. And not just for making you feel good whenever you do it, too!

Apart from helping keep your reproductive system in tiptop shape, giving a masturbation a go regularly can also help you become a better lover.

So make sure you follow along to learn why you should “badger the witness,” “play one-handed baseball,” “rough up the suspect,” “tickle your pickle” and “battle the purple-headed yogurt slinger” more often…

Masturbation helps relieve stress.

Did you know that the brain stimulates the endocrine glands to produce and release a lot of feel-good hormones every time you masturbate?

Apart from helping uplift your mood when you’re experiencing stress, these hormones are also going to make achieving and maintaining a stable erection easier since they are instrumental in prepping you up for lovemaking.

Feel-good hormones are the ones triggering the erogenous zones to become extra sensitive during sexual arousal, so as picking up the blood pressure and heart rate when things get hot in the bedroom.

The next time you’re feeling a bit down or under the sun, try giving masturbation a shot and you’ll be surprised with the results.

Masturbation can help prevent prostate cancer.

Prostate cancer usually starts out when toxins build up constantly in and around the prostate. Unless they are flushed out of the body, your risks of getting the disease are going to be very high in the long run.

What’s really interesting is that the body actually gets rid of these toxins when you ejaculate. You are actually flushing out these unwanted visitors from your system during the same.

This simply means that the more frequently you masturbate, the more protected you are against these prostate cancer-causing toxins.

Come to think of it. You’re not just going to experience pleasure when you masturbate, but also preventing prostate cancer while at it. How’s that for two for two?

Masturbation helps stave off premature ejaculation.

Your body’s orgasmic and ejaculatory responses kick in when the brain thinks that you’ve already experienced enough pleasurable sensations during lovemaking.

However, you can train your body to delay these responses by masturbating regularly.

Besides easily differentiating the sensations that you feel during sex , including the ones that signal that you’re about to reach the Big O and ejaculate, you can also know when to slow down a bit to prevent coming too quickly.

Your mindset can make or break your chances at making a first date awesome...

Your mindset can make or break your chances at making a first date awesome…

I’ve learned during my extensive research into the male psychology that acing a first date is more than just looking and smelling good, picking a great venue or successfully breaking the ice.

It also has something to do with mindset, which is something that a lot of guys seem to overlook when they take a woman out for the very first time.

So if you think your mindset needs a bit of improvement when it comes to making a first date an awesome experience, here are 4 tips that you should keep in mind…

Positivity is essential.

Positive thinking is a must if you’re looking to really get a good impression from a woman on your first date.

Stop thinking that she’s way out of your league or perhaps she is simply too beautiful or sophisticated for you. This will just make you feel extremely anxious and stressed.

And when that happens, the chances that you’re just going to botch the whole thing up will be very high. She agreed to go out with you on a date in the first place, right?

Focus on the good things.

Some men tend to immediately zero in on the negative things about their first date instead of focusing on the positive ones.

It could be the bad weather, the venue isn’t what they expected or perhaps they are simply feeling a bit under the sun.

Don’t let these things get to you. Instead of concentrating on the negative stuff, think about the opportunities ahead instead if you ace your first date.

Don’t overthink things.

A lot of men make the mistake of overthinking what will happen during their first date even before they arrive in the venue.

Apart from making you feel exhausted before the whole things starts, it also raises your chances of feeling stressed, which can lead to a lot of bad things happening one after another.

Now while it’s completely normal to have your doubts and insecurities, learn to let go of them before even thinking about heading to the venue or else you’ll say goodbye to date number two in no time.

Realize she’s feeling the same way, too.

Feeling nervous on a first date? Getting a bit anxious while at it? There’s no need to worry just yet.

Chances are the woman you’re out with is also feeling the same way. Think of it as the first common denominator the both of you have.

Now go ahead and make that first date awesome!


What you’re loading up on regularly can affect your ability to get rock hard…

I’m pretty sure that you consider your erection as one of the most important factors when it comes to sex.

Now while having a strong and stable erection can help ensure that you’ll give your lover the sexual pleasure she wants between the sheets, a weak and unpredictable one will just lead to the opposite.

However, a lot of guys seem to overlook a few key things that can easily set off problems in getting and maintaining a strong erection sooner or later if not taken care of properly.

Make sure you follow along to find out what these lesser known causes of erectile dysfunction are so you’ll keep on getting rock hard each time things get hot in the bedroom…

Erection Sapper #1: Sitting too much.

An erection basically occurs when a more than usual amount of blood is directed to the pelvic region where it is absorbed by the spongy erectile tissues in the penis. These tissues become rigid as soon they absorb all the blood they need.

However, something happens to this transmission of blood to the pelvic region when you spend most of your time sitting down.

Instead of going to where they’re supposed to, their path is going to be disrupted because the channels that blood passes through in and around the pelvic region get used to being idle.

Erection Sapper #2: Not keeping your oral hygiene up to par.

I know this sounds surprising, but you could be in for weakening erections in the long run if you don’t give your teeth, tongue and gums the TLC they deserve.

This is because when your teeth tongue and gums become diseased, lesions will form that can serve as makeshift openings for bad bacteria into the bloodstream where they could wreak havoc sooner or later.

And when I say “wreak havoc,” I mean preventing blood from flowing like they should and keep you from getting rock hard on demand.

Erection Sapper #3: Eating too much junk food.

Now while it’s alright to indulge in your favorite junk food from time to time, overdoing the whole thing easily boosts the amount of bad cholesterol in your body the least you expect it.

And when your bad cholesterol levels go off the charts, your overall circulation becomes affected and you’ll just find yourself unable to rise up to the occasion the next time you and you lover get frisky in bed.